I have been with my boyfriend for 4 months and i was just recently diagnosed with anxiety. I have feelings that I have fallen out of love with him and that is the last thing that I want. I want to be in love with him again and I dont know if i am convincing myself to be with him or I am convining myself that I am out of love with him. I still trust him, am attracted to him and still try and make him happy eg, cooking dinners, cleaning the house, doing his laundry while he is at work etc.....Would I still be doing this if I wasnt in love with him, how do you know you are not in love with someone anymore. He is the only one I want for the rest of my life and I dont know how to get that. I feel as ease when him and I talk about it cause he makes me feel comfortable with everything that is happening. Does anyone out there have any suggestions?
This is the first normal/drama-free relationship I have ever been in and the last one I want to be in too...
2007-01-10 06:28:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Anxiety is a disorder that is never easy to deal with. I think you still love him, which is why i am going to suggest sitting down with him and explaining how you feel. He deserves to know. If you find yourself still "falling out of love" with him, think of all the wonderful things you two have done together...how he makes you feel when you wake up beside him, how he makes you feel when you are making love...little things like that. Trust me when you are married you get quite the imagination work out. if you want to talk more feel free to IM me flameon1984@yahoo.ca
2007-01-10 06:35:27 · answer #1 · answered by Shayla L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You still love him. Love changes over time and maybe some of the initial passion is gone. Work on this area and try and rekindle the fire. Take it easy on all the house work, long term this will wear you out and you'll actually start resenting him. Don't be a doormat, very unsexy. Still clean but in moderation -make more time just for the two of you and reconnect. Be confident and enjoy the future with your guy.
2007-01-10 14:45:46 · answer #2 · answered by Maria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly...if you have only been dating for 4 months and you already feel this way, than that should be a sign to you. Don't hang on to a relationship for the wrong reasons (whether that be for stability, don't want to be lonely, b/c he is a great guy and you WANT to be with him.)
2007-01-10 14:35:10 · answer #3 · answered by afitchchic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
control your emotions by controlling your physiology, if you can control your body then you can control your mind. have you heard the saying "motion creates emotion"? Get in tune with your body and your mind will follow, I suggest Yoga or Tai Chi (even though it sounds cliche this stuff works beyond what words can explain)
2007-01-10 14:35:34 · answer #4 · answered by wondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what always happens after adultry.......Give up this bad style of life and pray to GOD and it's garantted you feel like never before.
2007-01-10 14:44:04 · answer #5 · answered by Mahmoud A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋