He had no choice but to go to a strip club with his cousin cuz he didn't want to be the only boy at the house and that he didn't touch any of the strippers would you believe him?
2007-01-10 06:33:10 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can't tell you if he lied or not, but most places, you can't touch the strippers.
2007-01-10 06:42:47 · answer #1 · answered by SIVA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have *some* experiance with the strip club scene....trust me, touching is NOT allowed, and if there happens to be any touching going on...the "customer" will pay quite a bit extra to do so. If I were you, dont be jealous over it...yeah it sucks, but guys really dont get with strippers too easily.
Also, I know of the "guy whos forced to go", they usually really dont enjoy themselves while they are there. They are too paranoid.
2007-01-10 14:42:34 · answer #2 · answered by dianek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend went to strip clubs when we were dating and trust he would not do anything crazy. Look your boyfriend wanted to go to the strip club and he probably touch a stripper or least enjoy the view. You cannot stop him from going out. You need to trust him and have confidence in your relationship.
2007-01-10 14:41:18 · answer #3 · answered by Disha 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you trust him? If he has never lied to you then I don't see a problem. On the other hand, if he has lied, did it pertain to other women.
He always has a choice on where he goes and what he does. The question is, do YOU want to be in a relationship with someone that you can't trust to go to a strip club. There isn't anything wrong with going unless someone makes it wrong.
2007-01-10 14:40:14 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL he "had no choice"? That's a new one.
Hang tight though...I don't really want my BF in joints like that either, but I'd say 99% of those girls aren't going to go home with your man unless he's got some big buck$ to spend. Beyond that, their only job while IN the bar is to milk your man for every penny he's got in his pocket and they need to do what they can to get it. I'd say that strippers are probably repulsed by most of the men who go to their clubs...but they have to be nice otherwise they don't take home the dough.
2007-01-10 14:40:07 · answer #5 · answered by Rach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all if u touch any of the strippers you can expect a 300lbs dude named bubba to grab you by your neck and throw u out the door and have u land on your head. so if u dont believe him your ignorant to how strip clubs actually work.
2007-01-10 14:38:25 · answer #6 · answered by rodie5582 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It probably isn't a true story (what guy doesn't love a strip club). But it depends on the level of trust you all have in your relationship. If you trust him and can feel confident in the fact that he didn't do anything and wouldn't do anything to hurt you then I wouldn't worry about it.
2007-01-10 14:40:42 · answer #7 · answered by shallybles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is making up a very terrible excuse. Maybe he didn't touch any of the girls but with such an unbelievable excuse, why believe the rest of the story - Good luck!
2007-01-18 12:12:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend wouldnt have to make up such an elaborate story... Even if he went willingly to a strip club, its not a big deal. If you've never been to one, I suggest going so you can see what really goes on. Its just women making money based on their bodies and looks. Its not a big deal. Me and my husband go together sometimes just because its fun. I wish women didnt think it was such a big deal, I think more and more couples wouldnt have stupid fights if they just learned to not sweat the small stuff.
2007-01-10 14:38:35 · answer #9 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would be worried that he could not stand up and do what he wanted to do.The "i had not choice" thing is a cop out.
He is either lying or has no sense of who he is and what he stands for.
2007-01-10 14:39:08 · answer #10 · answered by southernbell_1313 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋