Family & Relationships - 10 January 2007

My older brother who never holds a job for long has always asked me for financial help or asked to stay at my house. He does nothing to work towards his future and sits in front of the tv all day long. This problem has been ongoing for a long time. I am tired of him depending on me just cause he does not want to work. Yet I feel guilty if he has no where to go...I know he is responsible for how his life, in what words can I tell him how unfair it is for him to depend on me. He is a grown man already and makes me think he will never get it together.

2007-01-10 06:48:07 · 6 answers · asked by pictureshygirl 7 in Singles & Dating

we were divorced but going though reconciliation and she became pregnant and bore a baby does that mean we are no longer divorced or what?

2007-01-10 06:47:42 · 7 answers · asked by SAYO O 2 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my boyfriend has been dating for 3months we love eachother but latley we havent be talking when i call him he say he on the phone woith his brother and he will call me back

2007-01-10 06:47:25 · 19 answers · asked by barkleyferguson 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-10 06:46:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hey
okay
I asked out my friend abt 3 weeks ago, she said she does not l;ike me in that way, and she sorta had this thing with this outer guy arnd that time,
later on, 5 days later - this guy - her friend left country, so she got back to being all friends with me, and told me that i hope its all good n we can remain friends - without it all gettin in the way

on new years, she was my so called date - but she was with me for all of 5 mins after which she did her own thing, and hangin out with eveyone,
we hung out after that - on her b.day night - she had a bit too much to drick, so we were grinding, and i gave her a kiss on the cheek, after droppin her home

next day i asked her to be my date for that night cause it was acouple thing, she said shes goin solo - and then, um, while leavin i asked for a hug n kiss good bye - she said 2 walk her 2 the car, so i did - but she sat in n drove off, without a hug n kiss,
few mins later she messaged sain she forgot

whats goin on?

2007-01-10 06:46:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

do you believe in seven years of bad luck when a mirror breaks?

2007-01-10 06:46:31 · 6 answers · asked by *Glitta n' Gloss* 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a professional woman who flies as a Captain for a major US airline. I am 29 years old but seem to have the worst problem finding suitable men. I am in great physical shape, and am 5'10" but I feel that my breasts are too large for my frame. I wonder if they are only attracted to my body because when I chose to have sex with men them they dont call back.

2007-01-10 06:46:20 · 16 answers · asked by CurareDart 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 06:45:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so its like this.im a boy crazy girl. i know that i like gys and i also know that i'll never have a relationship with another girl. but everybody seems to be talking about bi curiosity and the hype is very big. so, i have decided to meet a girl over the internet who is also bi curious. and fool around a little bit. like a one time thing. im not looking for a friend and she has to agree to some simple things. im 18 and im also looking for 18-20 year old girls. so if this sounds like you, either leave your email or an answer and ill contact you. ;)

2007-01-10 06:44:53 · 5 answers · asked by ursNonlyUrs 2 in Singles & Dating

Theres this dude i went out with for awhlie i really got to know him and he was really funny.he was always there for me until one day he stopped talking to me and i don't know why and now its been 3 months we haven't said a word to each other.i wanted to talk to him but i get scared and i just can't do.i wouldn't know what to say to him.he really made me happy.we have 2 classes together and all he can do is just stare at me and not say he's sorry for hurting me.so i need help on if i should talk to him or not.sometimes i think about him and think how in the world did this happen???on the other hand im thinking of not dating another guy until i find the right one that is if there is one.so pretty please can someone help me with this situation?

2007-01-10 06:44:31 · 15 answers · asked by Umeko 2 in Singles & Dating

How would you make it clear to guy that you want him to leave you alone?Thanks a lot

2007-01-10 06:43:58 · 15 answers · asked by spiritualism0 3 in Singles & Dating

I've been trying to win the affection of a certain someone but it looks like it's gonna take awhile, but theres this other guy that really wants to be with me, should i forget my pursuit and give this other guy a chance?? I really don't know what i should do, i'm so confused.

2007-01-10 06:43:37 · 41 answers · asked by word4word 2 in Singles & Dating

we were divorced but going though reconciliation and she became pregnant and bore a baby does that mean we are no longer divorced or what?

2007-01-10 06:42:48 · 19 answers · asked by SAYO O 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I got together 3 years ago. He told me that he couldn't stand when he was with his wife that she would rarely clean the house although she was a stay at home mom and he worked out of town most of the time. When he would come in from being gone he said there was only pathways from room to room to walk. He says she loves their 2 boys and they want to live with her but they just live in such crap. I thought he might be exagerating how bad she lives but I got to see it first hand when we went over to her house to pick his boys up for a visit. When I walked in her house the first thing that hit me was this strong over powering smell of cat pee and sh*t smell. It smelled like the cat box hadn't been taken out in months. The second thing was her house was a mess. Hubby was telling the truth about her. So knowing she does love the kids and they love her we haven't said anything about this. What should we do? We want her to keep her kids but we want their living enviroment clean.

2007-01-10 06:42:28 · 12 answers · asked by Lucinda M 3 in Marriage & Divorce

to have kids

2007-01-10 06:42:07 · 75 answers · asked by ms.eisha 1 in Singles & Dating

by

2007-01-10 06:41:22 · 3 answers · asked by dil 1 in Singles & Dating

Just curious, if you look on boards you will see a lot of un married nurses. What are the chances of being a nurse and getting married, has anyone ever done a study?

2007-01-10 06:40:27 · 1 answers · asked by Fun2010 4 in Singles & Dating

He is in to wrestling and football, but there are not going to be any of those kinds of events in our area on or around his bday (1-27).

I was thinking of a road trip... has anyone ever partied in Dallas, Texas? If so, where are the hott stops? We do not like clubs, but bars are cool.

I was also thinking of a couple day at the spa. Is that cool or is that gay?

Should I just give him a party at one of his favorite bars? Rent a limo and pick up a couple of his friends and we all go to the bar?

He does not like stip clubs either.

2007-01-10 06:40:13 · 2 answers · asked by Morenita Rica 1 in Singles & Dating

if someone is interested in you.

2007-01-10 06:39:59 · 19 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

im i never suppose to have one. my bf is 15 will be 16 this year and i will be 17 this year
please any suggestions why they are moving this way with me

2007-01-10 06:39:46 · 17 answers · asked by lil babe 2 in Singles & Dating

Or is it a reason to badger the guy for getting pounced on by an overwieght or unattractive woman that he normally wouldn't get on otherwise.

2007-01-10 06:39:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom is very set in what she wants to do. Only problem it's MY wedding. Now that were around about 9 weeks away from the event we have an added problem. The seating at the wedding/reception.

I'm having the reception & wedding all in one room, people are going to sit 6 to a table, even during the wedding. That's about the only decision my mom has liked actually. My husband & I will have a "sweetheart" table for just the two of us, our parents will each have the two front tables for 6. Problem is, my mother is throwing a hissy fit, wanting her own 2 person table for her & my dad. The groom's family are fine with a table of 6, considering he has a sister & such that also want to sit up front. My mother is saying if she doesn't get her own 2 person table she'll just "sit all the way in the back" due to not wanting to sit with some family members.

What's the best thing here? Give in & give them a 2 person table so they don't have to sit with other family? Or stay strong?

2007-01-10 06:38:25 · 22 answers · asked by layla983 5 in Weddings

2007-01-10 06:38:19 · 13 answers · asked by Boricua Born 5 in Singles & Dating

I've known this woman since middle school. We are both married stay at home moms with young children. Our kids love each other, and we get together weekly for play dates.

She has become very interested in "dating" men behind her husbands back. All of a sudden she's acting like a horny teenage boy! Gone are the talks about child rearing or quick dinner recipes, she's all about sex now. Wanting to have sex, wishing she culd have sex with so and so, and telling me about all these men she's seeing.

She wants me to cover for her when she's with other men, which I will not do. If asked if she was with us, I will tell her husband the truth. She has already told her husband she was with me and my family when she was out with other men. This makes me very uncomfortable.

Considering our kids love each other and get along very well, should I continue the friendship?? Or is it too much?? It's getting weirder by the minute.

2007-01-10 06:37:55 · 9 answers · asked by wwhrd 7 in Friends

Hey everyone, I'm fairly new to meeting and chatting with people online, but I've met a few gems along the way. I have a question for anyone who has used an internet dating site. If the person posts their username and they have an associated email that coincides with that username, is it ok to send them an email other than being confinec to the constraints of the dating site, i.e. some people cannot read their email unless they pay a fee. Btw there are two foxes I am chasing, hope they're both for real :)

2007-01-10 06:37:35 · 10 answers · asked by FearDragons 3 in Singles & Dating

My married friend is having marital problems. She comes to me for help so what can I tell her.
This guy who's supposedly her friend calls her and intentionally tries to make her husband look bad by telling her stuff he's done and bringing up all his faults and drinking problems.Then the guy seems to lead her on and try to hang out with her all the time.I told her that it sounds like he's trying to break them up for some reason. I also told her that he is trying to make himself look like he's emotionally there for her by bringing up her husband so she'll talk about their probs with him and become angry with her husband in the process. She think he's a good friend, but I think something weird is going on.Why is he demoralizing her husband? Why is it so important to make himself look like some hero for telling on him and being there for her? What do you think? What should I tell her?

2007-01-10 06:37:33 · 20 answers · asked by So'sYerFace 4 in Marriage & Divorce

how many days would you let go by without calling your girlfriend of 5 months???????????

2007-01-10 06:37:06 · 9 answers · asked by gigi 2 in Singles & Dating

I saw a girl at church and wanted to meet her but didn't get a chance. I sat down by my friend where I always sit and she was right there to. She knows my friend.

I was going to go attend a dance class but didn't get to go last week. I asked a friend if there was any girls there that I could partner up with and when he told me who showed up for the first time last week I realized it is the same girl. I will be going to the dance class tonight and she will be there

I attended a Bible Study that she is apart of. I might go on a regular basis. She wasn't there that night and I was glad becuase I would have been nervous.

I have yet to have the courage to meet her. But the circumstances with where I sat in church and the dance class are kinda cool and totally circumstantial ( or is it fate). I attended the Bible study knowing she would be there and partially cause I wanted to meet her. Is this too weird and stalkish?

2007-01-10 06:37:04 · 8 answers · asked by lend322 4 in Singles & Dating

And where did your parents meet? and grandparents?
I'm doing a study so please be honest.

2007-01-10 06:36:12 · 19 answers · asked by Fun2010 4 in Singles & Dating

My nephew is getting married and his mom wants to dance to a song about a mom to her son. In spanish would be the ideal but in english would be just fine. Help please!!

2007-01-10 06:35:46 · 8 answers · asked by bianca's mom 1 in Weddings