I am a professional woman who flies as a Captain for a major US airline. I am 29 years old but seem to have the worst problem finding suitable men. I am in great physical shape, and am 5'10" but I feel that my breasts are too large for my frame. I wonder if they are only attracted to my body because when I chose to have sex with men them they dont call back.
2007-01-10 06:46:20 · 16 answers · asked by CurareDart 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
(sorry for the typo at the end)
2007-01-10 06:47:48 · update #1
Since I am always flying, I am never home for very long and its hard to have a steady relationship-especially in the beginning. I usually wait until the second date to become intimate. Do you think that I should wait a little longer?
2007-01-10 06:57:19 · update #2
A couple possibilities are:
They see that you are a pilot and assume you are looking for someone to kill some time with wherever you happen to be at the time.
the way you have phrased this makes it sound as if you met someone and decided to have sex with the before you really had much of a relationship. If that is the case, and if you weren't very good, I wouldn;t call you back either.
Heres some suggestions:
If you are looking for a relationship, next time you meet someone, exchange a few phone calls BEFORE you have sex with them. That way a relationship of some sort already exists and the "weirdness" is out of the way already.
If all you want is the sex, then remember the old saying "A dog doesn't S**t where it eats. You are a pilot. Do the singles thing in towns far from home. That will protect your reputation at least. Enjoy yourself while ya can ~.o
2007-01-10 06:56:54 · answer #1 · answered by aural_exstacy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The nature of your life makes taking the tihe time hard to come by. That is why you don't take longer because you don't have the time to give.
Ironically, you fit the lifestyke I have chosen to live perfectly. Not staying very long at home, but knowing that a gentleman is waiting for your return is what I would offer. It would give me space, and I would love you more since life has given you the opportunity to do what you like to do and then be tended to upon your return home.
Your endowments are secondary in my book. Who you are as a person and the kind of person you are is what interests me most. Are you allowed to get calls on your cell phone at 30,000 feet? I would always want to call you back!
2007-01-10 07:45:12 · answer #2 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I know exactly how you feel. I am 5'10 and around 125lbs with a small D cup. Secondly, you should make sure the man is interested in YOU and you only! Don't worry so much about being intimate with them, you need to be true to yourself.
Sounds like those men in particular were shallow, but not all men are like that.
Keep looking & good luck!
2007-01-10 06:51:01 · answer #3 · answered by Allison 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're having sex with them too early in the relationship. The longer someone will stick with you, the less likely it is they are just after sex. Wait it out a little longer next time.
2007-01-10 06:50:21 · answer #4 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait long enough to ensure a connection with the man. Make sure that it is about more than your body by making him wait and truly getting to know each other. You can learn a lot about a person in a matter of months if you spend enough time with them.
2007-01-10 06:53:11 · answer #5 · answered by rsharsky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated two guys who were shorter way shorter than me (I'm really tall). One lasted a year and the other 2 years. You do get stares and people have had opinions about it. But I never cared and you shouldn't either :) if she makes you happy that should be all that matters
2016-05-23 05:24:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you having sex too soon? If you find the right man your physical appearance will have been part of the reason he chose you so just take your time Mr. Right will come in time.
2007-01-10 06:52:16 · answer #7 · answered by DESTINY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first I would sugest not having sex with that person until you like them... and by liking them I mean like them a lot. And if you call them afterwards and they dont call back, drop by their house or work when they get their lunch break. See what happens. Try your best to get in contact with them and ask them about it. You'll find a good guy eventually.
2007-01-10 06:55:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are dating the wrong type of guy. Try holding out for as long as posible. Sometimes it is better to let a friendship blossom into something much more.
2007-01-10 06:51:24 · answer #9 · answered by lbuajlw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try going out with men more than once before you have sex. Let them call you back before you have sex and you won't have to wonder about it.
2007-01-10 06:51:40 · answer #10 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋