Hey everyone, I'm fairly new to meeting and chatting with people online, but I've met a few gems along the way. I have a question for anyone who has used an internet dating site. If the person posts their username and they have an associated email that coincides with that username, is it ok to send them an email other than being confinec to the constraints of the dating site, i.e. some people cannot read their email unless they pay a fee. Btw there are two foxes I am chasing, hope they're both for real :)
2007-01-10 06:37:35 · 10 answers · asked by FearDragons 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No disrepect about these girls being foxes, but they are very attractive :) Also we've emailed a couple of times, and one has asked me to email her some photos, which is not permissible within the site. I'm taking it slow, avoiding the pitfalls, and I think sending them emails is appropriate, since they seem very receptive of me.
2007-01-10 06:51:22 · update #1
Most people on internet dating sites sign up for a reason - so their real identity is protected, and they don't get flooded with propositions from any skanky weirdo who happens to figure out their real email. Now, assuming that you're NOT a skanky weirdo and are in fact a perfectly nice normal guy, you ought to respect this protective barrier and contact them via the internet dating site. If their profiles hints that they would welcome messages at their real email address, then by all means go ahead.
If you are bound and determined to contact these people anyway, be sure to start out with a "I hope you don't mind that I circumvented the dating site and wrote to you directly."
And please don't call women "foxes" or "chicks" - we are not prey you are hunting, we are people you are relating with.
2007-01-10 06:46:38 · answer #1 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a member of a totally free dating site, unlimited emails, chat etc. Yet there are attractive women that ask me to email them at their personal address. It is hard not to resist, but according to the dating site admin, they are scammers, mostly from eastern europe and africa. The offending profile was removed from the site. The site has blocked most scammers quiet effectively, but I guess some slip through.
I have tried email one and she told me a sob story and asked me to help by sending her money.
2007-01-11 05:31:22 · answer #2 · answered by Green 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess you could try emailing them that way but lots of people use different names on dating sites. Don't be too disappointed if the foxes turn out to be dogs.
2007-01-10 06:40:54 · answer #3 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even as i become assembly human beings on the web personals web content (for more effective or less 4 years), I basically kinda said my instinct; often i needed to digital mail lower from side to side basically extremely in the previous honestly assembly the guy - yet often we may make plans to satisfy fairly rapidly; I advise, what's the point of sending one yet another e-mails for a month once you are able to honestly meet in human being? i might want to assert, it truly is going to grow to be obtrusive fairly rapidly once you're even gentle with the guy; there's no favor to "rush it", yet you do not could experience like you want to await months in the previous installation a very date. opportunities are extreme, a lady who needs to "wait" for a lengthy time period isn't some thing yet a project besides. (I met my husband on the personals web site, btw - so the attempt I positioned into courting had ultimately "paid off". do not get discouraged in case you run into some setbacks initially, it truly is no longer a quickly or fool-info procedure. good success.)
2016-12-28 15:25:04 · answer #4 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use the email address and some can't pay or refuse to pay and it's a tough battle trying to find someone. Use all means available to you.
2007-01-10 06:44:12 · answer #5 · answered by virginboy51 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were the recipient, I would think you were a little desperate for contacting me outside the confines of the site.
2007-01-10 06:41:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can always try. You can also send your email address or number in your messages to them.
2007-01-10 06:40:55 · answer #7 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead man.
2007-01-10 06:41:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a try.
2007-01-10 06:41:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They put it on there for a reason.
2007-01-10 06:40:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋