Been unemployed for too long - drained my savings accounts and just receive a chek every other week from unemployment doesn't cut my 1/2 of the bills. Got a lead on a job making a little more than unemployment gives me, BUT not close to what I was previously making, My fiance is all over me saying I need 2 or 3 total jobs cuz of the debt I am in - he's been paying everything for 3 months but asks every month what i can pay, which is usually nothing or $100.00 - did NOT get this job yet and seems not to be happy I want it for the salary amount --what to do?
2007-01-10 06:26:34 · 10 answers · asked by Kat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I agree with Amberlyn4. However, go with an employment agency. I was out of work recently for 5 weeks. I was so poor for awhile because Unemployment took like 4 weeks to finally decide to send me money. I interviewed with at least 20 companies, and ended up taking a job I was offered through an agency. I have gotten several jobs through agencies. They are great if you can find the right one. Not sure where you're located, but if there's a Personnel One in your area, they're great, cause even if they can't find you a permanent job right away, they'll get you some temp work while you're waiting. At least that was my experience.
Good luck!
2007-01-10 06:35:16 · answer #1 · answered by cey12000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in a marriage the man should be the responsible one to bring in the income as a husbandly duty. But there are always jobs around maybe you are reaching too high - so you had a good paying job and no more that is life. Just get on the employment rung even if it means a job in wal-mart. But I hope your fiance is understanding as when in a marriage it is not always 50-50 sometimes it is 40-60 or 70-30 as situations change like yours have and acceptance of that is a must if you are to remain a happy couple.
My wife is giving up work soon and I am proud to be her financial supporter because as a husband it is my honourable duty.
2007-01-10 06:38:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might earn some extra money in addition to a job by selling goods or a service on eBay. Here's a link to a previous question with some details and suggestions.
As well as that, there are a lot of free training courses online to learn a skill for a new job. Think of a few skills that might be useful, then use google or ask on here tofind courses, articles, free electronic books (Adobe Acrobat .pdf file eBooks) that you can download, etc.
You might consider self-employment. Use an existing skill or learn a new one and sell a service in your local area, like tutoring school kids in some subject or aromatherapy, etc. Or sell a computer based service online. Ask how on here. Buy a book on Amazon, look for articles online, or ask on here about self-employment. Such things as keeping records, opening a business bank account and doing a tax return. Find out if its easy enough for you to do. Plenty of trades-people like home-visit hairdressers or plumbers manage it.
For each small problem or part of a problem that you face, thousands of people have had it before and have written articles on the net or posted answer on here. Just search old quetions on here for the name of the problem, such as 'debt', using the 'Search for questions' box or do a google search for articles. Or just ask a new question.
2007-01-10 06:44:01 · answer #3 · answered by ricochet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are you won't make what you were making at your previous job right off the bat. You will have to work your up to your past salary.. If you feel you would enjoy the job take it and give it a shot. They should tell you what there policy is for raises and promotions. Props to your boyfriend for making ends meet, but I think 3 months is long enough to be on unemployment.. Good luck!
2007-01-10 06:32:49 · answer #4 · answered by Kristi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should find a job that will at least help you pay on your bills. Once you are able to do that then maybe you can continue to look out for something that will bring in a little more money or something that you would truly love to do.
2007-01-10 06:32:35 · answer #5 · answered by Msportyk22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better start looking for more jobs!! Do you think you can be a waiter? They make good money and you can do this while you are looking for the job of your choice.
2007-01-10 06:32:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a job at a temp place until you can find permanent work.
2007-01-10 06:31:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a job, maybe and stop wasting your time asking these questions...
2007-01-10 06:31:13 · answer #8 · answered by QnA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be strong..
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