Im really Curious about that!
2007-01-10 06:26:43 · 31 answers · asked by kutieangeleyez 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Different guys think different things. I've had some great times and good relationships with women that slept with me on a first date. The norm is to think that the girl is easy (for lack of a more descriptive word that isn't allowed on this board). I don't have a problem with sex on a first date IF IT'S WITH THE RIGHT PERSON. Sex just for the sake of having sex is good but a guy can go buy that and they won't have to deal with that person the next day. When I make love, it's with someone I care about even if it's on a first date.
2007-01-10 14:35:15 · answer #1 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the most part it's not a good idea. They think she probably does it all the time, and they loose respect for her right away.
It's better to wait a bit, get to know the person before you get intimate, in my experience, it's best all around.
Unless you don't care about the guy and it's OK by you that there will be a possibility he might never call you after you put out, then that's fine, but why would you want to be treated like this?
2007-01-10 14:33:03 · answer #2 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is because the guy is immature and thinks sex is something dirty or some kind of great accomplishment. They're too stupid to realize that women are as sexual as men and we were born to procreate. It is society that has put this stigma on sex. There is nothing wrong with it on the first date and there is nothing wrong with it ever if we are experiencing pleasure from it. Don't let those stupid people ruin a normal wonderful part of life with their immaturity.
2007-01-10 14:34:48 · answer #3 · answered by John C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that she is easy and they don't respect her anymore once they get it. So don't have sex on the first, second or third date wait at least a month or two so u can really get to know the person cuz u could be having sex with someone who has AIDS and is not telling u
Something to think about!!!
2007-01-10 14:32:51 · answer #4 · answered by lanice_us 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be misleading to say that all guys think of such a girl in the same way. Some reactions might be:
"sweet, i like this girl and this will work out"
"sweet, i am getting what i want and won't call back"
"what a slut, but at least i got laid"
"does she have self-esteem issue?"
"how many other guys does she sleep with?"
My father says: "Men want to be the first man in a woman's life; women want to be the last woman in a man's life."
2007-01-10 14:31:36 · answer #5 · answered by lesaint770 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well there's different ways to look at this. IT depends on the girl if she is loose and try to put out with just anybody then she is nasty and not worth the trouble. If she is a clean girl and don't have sex with just anybody and this was just a isolated case that happened because she was turned on by the guy who talked her into it, made her horny etc,etc. then I would say she is OK. but again I must say a lot has to do with the girl,,her personality,her lifestyle etc,etc,
2007-01-10 14:48:28 · answer #6 · answered by ronald r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think in general it makes a guy respect her less and curious as to how many guys she has done this with in the past. It also may contribute to a guy feeling as if he has conquered her and ready to move on to other challenges. But you never know, every situation/guy is different.
2007-01-10 14:34:58 · answer #7 · answered by rsharsky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They all say that they thinks she is easy, or not worth a relationship, but are they still having sex with her on the first date????
2007-01-10 14:30:21 · answer #8 · answered by swanser 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she never have sex in the first date if she have a comfortable and u tired to make that...
she can't say hay i want that, if she didn't think that u want that too..
so if u aware so much, u must to think twice why she did that in first date.. just u can't ask her and she will tell u what she exactly she felt.. maybe she wants that and she need that, she did sex... anyway don't worry it's normal if u see it normal.
2007-01-10 14:32:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends. If all they were looking to do was score then they probably think she is a slut. However, if you really had a great time together and the sex just sort of happened, they probably don't think anything at all.
2007-01-10 14:32:34 · answer #10 · answered by lbuajlw 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋