Im 19, and he's 25...yeah yeah, I know Im too young. Thats why I probably am so scared of it...Im not a commitment phobe or anything, but come on! He talks about ALL THE TIME! It makes me nervous! He talks about the future, not about getting married RIGHT NOW, although he does hint towards at least engagment. My mother was married 8 times and I dont even know anyone that hasnt been divorced at least once...even my friends who are the same age! Its crazy these days! Another thing...why is my bf so worried about marriage? I thought MOST guys are against it because THEY are scared of the idea. I feel like the "typical guy" in the relationship.
2007-01-10 06:21:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, but I'm 37. If I was 19, I wouldn't even be considering it.
2007-01-10 06:25:01 · answer #1 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am 32 and this is my second marriage. I can advise you like this: If you don't think you are ready don't even consider the idea. Marriage should mean more then it does. I wouldn't rush into marriage if I thought it would end in divorce somewhere down the road. My first marriage lasted ten years and I was 17, and he was 27 when we married. He was very controlling and manipulative. I hated being in it. This is my second marriage and I have been married for three years now. This marriage is so much different then the first. I actually love being married to my husband. Just take your time and make sure that it is right for you.
2007-01-10 14:29:07 · answer #2 · answered by heaven o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I use to be scared of marriage. Now that I'm older and really understand what it means, I'm not scared. I have been married 11 years.
Your hesitation could be a sign that you know that you're not ready or, maybe, that he's not the one.
2007-01-10 14:27:19 · answer #3 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there should not be a rush on it at all. take one day at a time. im 25 and my fiance is 25. we've been together 6 yrs and engaged for 3. there is no reason to rush you have all the time in the world. take one day at a time. he should understand
2007-01-10 14:30:15 · answer #4 · answered by notsurehere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy just wants to tie down what he's got. Forget marrying him, and better yet forget dating him. Get out while the getting is good. You are obviously not in the same place on this issue.
2007-01-10 14:29:07 · answer #5 · answered by Eric 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't commit if you are too scared. That could end horribly.
however I was 18 when I was married ... that was 5 yrs ago (23 now) and I am still happily married! :)
2007-01-10 14:32:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a dark hole from which their is no escape. I suggest you wait until either hell freezes over or you don't care about livinng anymore. Seriously, though live life a little bit by yourself before you try to live life with someone else.
2007-01-10 14:34:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont commit if you're not ready,marriage is no fun at all.both of you need at least 2 more years to know each other.Dont rush,cos its not a bed of rosses.
2007-01-10 14:28:38 · answer #8 · answered by ike mie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he thinks he is ready just give it a chance and talk to him about any insecurities that you may be having .
2007-01-10 14:26:53 · answer #9 · answered by MOM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your nervous............ WAIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-10 14:25:45 · answer #10 · answered by alirette70301 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋