my mom says that I cant see him any more because he's hurt me one to many times. But I still love him with all of my heart.
2007-01-10 06:17:21 · 6 answers · asked by annadabanna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its hard to let go of someone you love. Even when they have hurt you multiple times, its very hard to let go. You have to think about whats best for you. From the sound of it... this guys has hurt you & may bot be someone who is good for you. Your mom wants what is best for you so now you just have to some to terms with the fact that she is right... being away from him is BEST for you. My parents prohibited me from seeing this guy that I had been dating for a long time & not 7 years later... I'm 23... I am so happy that they did that. If I had stayed with him I know my life would have hit rock bottom by now. What you have to say to him is... "I can't have this in my life. Therefore I can't have you in my life. I deserve someone who loves AND respects me. I wish you the best & good bye."
Thats it. It will sting to speak the words out loud but trust me when I tell you that you will not regret it.
Good Luck & Take care
2007-01-10 06:29:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom tells you? You must be young, which makes it harder because first love hits you like a ton of bricks. Simply tell him you can't see him anymore. You need space or a break or sometime off. If he hurt you too often than you should go because the hurting isn't going to stop. People are products of their patterns. So why invest your time in someone who hurts you ? But be careful about it because some guys get physical when you dump them. Just break it off with him and don't meet with him anywhere alone. Men harbor resentments about these things so be careful.
2007-01-10 06:25:56 · answer #2 · answered by misfit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your Mom have a point because if so If he's hurting you he can't love you.
2007-01-10 06:25:25 · answer #3 · answered by bird 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple Don't answear His phone call
2007-01-10 06:22:14 · answer #4 · answered by browneyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if not face to face,a letter or email.just be honest and to the point.its easier that way
2007-01-10 06:22:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good bye loser
2007-01-10 06:20:39 · answer #6 · answered by rastus7742 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋