ok i'm married and have two babies with this man and another one on the way. He was in the army while he was in bootcamp he told he didn't want to see or talk to this girl anymore cuz he didn't want to lose his family. well long time ago maybe like 1 year and 3months I found a e-mail that she sent to my husband say she wanted to be the step mother of my kids. and she has a kid of her own plus a bf. But now i still hate her and i don't want my husband to talk to her cuz she is just bad news well my hubby is now out of the army and here with us and eversince hes been here hes been talk ing to her and e-mail her. So I guess what i'am asking what would of you do if U seen ur hubby write this to a girl. Cuz what i'm thinking right now is leaving him and take the kids. or shuld I stay and see what happens. heres what i found today that he wrote her late last night. tell me what u think............Hey Baby Girl,
Just to let you knw I AM BACK IN TOWN!
call my cell phone and call when me when I can come over to your house.
I Wanna come over so bad.
Dont forget about OUR prmises that we made each other. ALL OF THEM. I cant wait to see
you again.
Thanks for the comments you left on my page. and your right. Bad *** boys do drive bad
*** toys. You can ride my bad *** ty all night long if yu ever let me cumm over. lol.
I Love you baby,
I MISS YOU .!
I LOVE YOU!
2007-01-10 06:23:26 · 10 answers · asked by sylvia b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well this tells you all you need to know. He is cheating on you are thinking that he is going to sleep with this girl. Ask him to stop contact with her. If he won't then you have some decisions to make regarding whether you stay or go. This isn't easy to do.
2007-01-10 06:30:30 · answer #1 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of there and just tell him that he just lost everything. Look him square in the eyes when you say it don't yell or scream or raise your voice. Tell him you are leaving and giving him three days to clear out and then you will be back. Tell him that after that he is on his own and that everything that was and is important to him needs to be gone or you will make sure it is gone when you get back. Go to the police station first and tell them what is going on and let them know what you are doing so that way you can make sure you have the right to come back after three days if you don't just show him that message and still with no emotion look at him tell him he has 30 minutes to get out and that he better take it all because there will be no other chances to get anything he wants from that house. If he starts yelling just walk away from him but don't let him see your hurt or he will just play you like a fool let him know you are serious and that you will NOT be taken or made a fool of like that.......good luck girl and know that you will be okay and a great mom to those babies!!!
2007-01-10 07:14:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a suggestion; put yourself in my place, and read your question. Okay...now what should you do? If I found that from my hubby, I would not even be on here asking this, I would be at the court house filing divorce papers. And you don't need to move out, make his sorry a** move out. You have the kids and you need the shelter...he can go ask her boyfriend if he can move in. Good luck! :)
2007-01-10 06:32:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's clear that he still has a thing for her, so I'm going to go with breaking up. Except for one thing...pack his crap and make him leave. Why should you give up where you are living now and further disrupt your kids lives?
2007-01-10 06:31:57 · answer #4 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are serious, I feel sorry for you. Both of you sound like losers, might as well just stay together and work on overpopulating the planet. (You might want to look into this thing called "birth control", it is amazingly useful.)
2007-01-10 06:45:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Print 2 copies of the email. One to take with you to court and one to stick up his nose! Leave him and take your sweet babies with you.
2007-01-10 06:44:04 · answer #6 · answered by swanser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh sh*** you gotta get out of there hun...after you smack him and tell him he is a complete idiot...have you told him you seen the email? if not tell him fast
Good luck sweetie...thats tough I hope everything works out for you
You and your kids deserve better...kick his a** to the curb
2007-01-10 06:57:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first if you have a copier, print it out then leave him, later when he asks why, show it to him, then show it to your lawyer, what a jerk, you and those babies deserve better
2007-01-10 06:45:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave.
2007-01-10 06:32:23 · answer #9 · answered by Floss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cannot be serious.... leave him!
2007-01-10 06:30:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋