Family & Relationships - 8 January 2007

I've been going out with this girl for almost 7 years, then out of the blue she broke up with me. She stated that she loves me, she can’t marry me and that I should find someone better then her. I stated that I’m old enough to make that decision and I love her so much. My problem was that I did not her that I love her until a week before the break up. I pushed her away for so many years and now I need her back, I love her so much that my heart hurts. I never cheated on her. We have not seen each other for 2 months now . I called her she said don’t call for another month. She said she wants to be friends but not yet. Because she loves me and its to hard for her. A month before the break up she told my friends that she loves me so much. When I told her that im in lover with her and I want to marry her an have kids, few weeks after that she broke up with me. She went so cold. What can I do. She asked me to marry last year and I said im not interested. I have broken her heart. In 2 months I stepped into he shoes and I have changed for the better. We spoke to each other on the phone 5 times a week and see each other 2 a week and now she went cold, she does not call me or email me. We made each other so happy and we connected on so many levels. I thought she was 'the one' and now I'm beside myself. I MUST win her back! How do I convince her though that I have changed and I want her back

2007-01-08 14:14:34 · 1 answers · asked by Derek J 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so i was tryin 2 ask this guy on to a dance on aim and i go so r u goin with anyone? and he goes i dont know yet but theres a high chance i will. What do i say?

2007-01-08 14:14:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In addition to staring and glaring and checking you out and who you are with all the time?

2007-01-08 14:13:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have 3 teenagers with my exhusband and he only pays 600.00 a month child support. He does not pay for insurance, extra curricular activities, doesnt buy them clothes or shoes, never helped with child care expenses, never pitched in for trips, camps, sports, or senior pictures. 600.00 a month thats it not a penny more. His payments have been very sporatic over the coarse due to frequent job changes and knee injury. At times being 6 mo behind. His wages are now being garnished. Problem now is he works for a trash company now where sometimes his paychecks bounce and sometimes they sit on the money taken out of his checks for child support and dont send it for 4 to 6 weeks, while he gets paid weekly. I have called enforcement to no avail. They give them threats but dont follow through. I was getting weekly checks for two months in a row and it suddenly stopped and havent gotten a check for 4 weeks.

2007-01-08 14:13:25 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well, he told me he likes me as a friend but wont quit staring at me and I already asked him out but he said he wasnt interested but we could be friends. Instead he is moving what should I do know that I am over him but still afraid to ask for his #

2007-01-08 14:13:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Keep in mind im expeirienced... im a virgen

2007-01-08 14:13:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 14:13:13 · 5 answers · asked by jeanine 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 14:13:05 · 4 answers · asked by average.mind 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-08 14:13:03 · 3 answers · asked by lilly 1 in Singles & Dating

Not a one night stand a date that was made or set up.Kissing , hugging, peck on check. no touching, lots of touching? Just more of a curious thought. Let me know if your male or female. I've been married a while so I am wondering what the standards are today. Be Honest if it's nothing it's nothing if it's all out screwing let it out. I don't judge and hell I don't know you.

2007-01-08 14:11:50 · 7 answers · asked by jweh8 2 in Singles & Dating

My perception sensed im become really a woman that if i could have a relationship in a man I will really care myself,my dignity and my purity as a woman..Specailly your virginity.For me virginity is very much important coz except the love that you could give in your future husband it would a good gift that he was the 1st.Some of my friends told me that it was b4 and its an old fashioned..So am i right to stand in my faith that sex after marriage?

2007-01-08 14:11:46 · 19 answers · asked by grace 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-08 14:11:12 · 0 answers · asked by simple 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-08 14:11:05 · 1 answers · asked by Sweet Pea 3 in Friends

could that really happen?

2007-01-08 14:11:02 · 8 answers · asked by o 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my sister and her kids were in the car and this guy came and start swearing on her and giving her the finger,
she called the police and after that she called her husband who he was inside the store when this happened and his response was ( why this guy was attacking you? ) she told him i do not know it might because i am Muslim and wearing the hijab. and her husband kept asking but why???/
now my sister is very hurt from her husband and i keep telling her to not think about it . and she says that she feels that he failed of protecting her by asking this questions.
so what do you think is she overreacting ?

2007-01-08 14:10:44 · 14 answers · asked by Roy R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-08 14:10:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i have been going out for over 2 years and living together for one. every timei go away he goes and hangs out and takes pictures of his "friend" that he has known for thirty years...hi high school sweetheart she is married with two kids but he still goes over there and asks her to pose for pictures for him and she does. he isnt moving our relationship forward at all what do i do?

2007-01-08 14:09:37 · 16 answers · asked by m &m 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my friend wants me to find out if her x still likes her b/c he broke up w/her b/c of a rumor.she is hurting inside even though he treated her like nothing. should i try to get them back to gether should i get in the middle????

2007-01-08 14:08:40 · 6 answers · asked by anomanous 2 in Singles & Dating

if you have a beautiful wife that is sexy smart loving and has a career takes care of the kids cleans cooks and u have wild passionate kinky sex almost everynight would a guy still cheat?i mean is to have strange why? or do u think u would if u love her and her looks and her qualities answer honestly and have u ever

2007-01-08 14:08:34 · 25 answers · asked by shelly_has_heart 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-08 14:08:32 · 8 answers · asked by adamsrm2004 1 in Singles & Dating

depression / bi-polar

2007-01-08 14:08:28 · 14 answers · asked by red0508 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-08 14:07:55 · 7 answers · asked by o 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-08 14:07:48 · 3 answers · asked by sphwaterboy 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so there was this guy at my school, and I danced with him and sent him a 'secret admirer' card...

Well nothing happened since then, and he hasn't talked to me since, is he just not interested and I should just back off? Because the secret admirer thing was about 3 weeks ago...

2007-01-08 14:06:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Help

2007-01-08 14:06:28 · 2 answers · asked by jake r 1 in Singles & Dating

I went out with a young woman nearly 3 months ago. Although things went well, she had to back off, as she was just coming off a bad breakup. About 1 month after that, we went out to a few parties and things seemed headed in the right direction and then she seemed to blow me off on a night out with some mutual friends, later passing that off as she claims she felt sick. I was turned off by that incident and backed off the whole thing significantly although I still saw her since we worked in the same office. Nothing really happened for a few weeks, but of late she's been text messaging me on a weekly basis asking how I am, what I'm doing, etc. I'm wondering if she's doing this to try and get things moving again or what?

Bottom line, I've always really liked the girl and I'd love for things to work out but I'm just not sure what to do.

2007-01-08 14:05:58 · 4 answers · asked by The Royal Followills 2 in Singles & Dating

I really love my girlfriend and we are going to get married soon and I would love to make our relationship last because I love her so much.

2007-01-08 14:05:42 · 10 answers · asked by zilla_bird 2 in Singles & Dating

"Well I am busy all weekend. I work Friday, Saturday, and Sunday. I also am going to a party on Saturday night, but what about something in like 3 weeks."

Note: I have known this girl for 2 years now, but I really only talk to her about school related stuff. For example, helping her with math especially. I have never asked a girl out before (i'm 16, she's 16), I don't even know if she likes me. What do I do?

2007-01-08 14:05:15 · 24 answers · asked by dbacksrandyj 1 in Singles & Dating

i tried telling her to take something else away but she wont listen and says,"i make the rules here,not u!"
poop head. i get so mad i scream!

2007-01-08 14:04:44 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-01-08 14:04:42 · 9 answers · asked by ? 1 in Friends