my friend wants me to find out if her x still likes her b/c he broke up w/her b/c of a rumor.she is hurting inside even though he treated her like nothing. should i try to get them back to gether should i get in the middle????
2007-01-08 14:08:40 · 6 answers · asked by anomanous 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow this is a hard one......maybe you should just talk to the guy and thats all cuz yeah it will get more complicated if you get right in the middle of them
2007-01-08 14:13:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you do it, and you succeed, you'll feel good that there together and thta she's happy, but if you fail, he won't be happy with you, and neither will your friend. And she'll be more hurt than ever because an old wound's been opened and now it hurts so bad she's broken. But if you do nothing, you let her be sad, and him not knowing what it would be like to have her back. So, if you do decide to try, make sure you get them together. If you know you can't, it's not wise to do it. But, you'll never know unless you try.
2007-01-08 22:18:14 · answer #2 · answered by bigheadrossman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he had a COMPLETE disregard for her emotions, why would you want to bring them back together? That doesn't sound very smart. I would just recommend that your friend forget about it and move on. He sounds like an emotionally (if not physically) abusive person, and neither you NOR your friend deserve that kind of treatment. Hope that helps.
2007-01-08 22:14:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would not getting involved in this situation. If they were meant to be together, I believe they would get back together without you being involved. If he treated her badly, then she deserves better than him.
2007-01-08 22:16:59 · answer #4 · answered by laura michelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shouldn't get involved with it, the most involved with it u should get is telling her NOT to get back together with him, she doesn't to deserve to be treated like crap, u should just hook her up with another guy that will treat her right
2007-01-08 22:13:28 · answer #5 · answered by Gunz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't. She should do it herself. What's the point of being with someone if you can't talk to them about your problems yourself?
2007-01-08 22:12:53 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Marie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋