Ok, so there was this guy at my school, and I danced with him and sent him a 'secret admirer' card...
Well nothing happened since then, and he hasn't talked to me since, is he just not interested and I should just back off? Because the secret admirer thing was about 3 weeks ago...
2007-01-08 14:06:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if that's all you've done, then you are definitely not a stalker. It also does not mean that he is not interested. He may be shy, or busy with a p/t job, or is wondering whom his "secret admirer" is.........you never know about these things. Try to make contact with him one more time, only this time don't be so anonymous.
2007-01-08 14:14:25 · answer #1 · answered by dabadoo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well since you were a "secret" admirer that means he doesnt know who you are. but if he isnt talking to you thats not a good sign? i would ask around and find out if he knew it was you - if he does know, i would ignore him, put him out of your mind. if he doesnt know, act like nothing happened, be his friend and then see if it can be something else.
2007-01-08 14:12:15 · answer #2 · answered by that girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is he suppose to talk to you if you sent him a "secret" admirer?
2007-01-08 14:10:40 · answer #3 · answered by Sonny E 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
weeks ago send him another card & say I'll be wearing pink on Thursday. He's dying to find out who is the secret ad by now!!
2007-01-08 14:17:09 · answer #4 · answered by Dotr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably doesn't know it was you who sent the card and maybe you should tell him and find out his reaction to you before deciding whether or not to back off.
2007-01-08 14:12:42 · answer #5 · answered by Ithy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were just a dance fling, let him be and move on.. you re still in school, you won't die because of some dumb boy not admiring you every second
2007-01-08 14:11:38 · answer #6 · answered by tuffchevy86 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How does he know you sent the card? Just try talking to him. See what happens. If he doesn't respond, forget about him.
2007-01-08 14:10:57 · answer #7 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesn't know that the card is from you. I think you should tell him your feelings. It's better to know, than always live with what might have been.
2007-01-08 14:19:15 · answer #8 · answered by Charlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should back off
why dont you try befriending him instead of "secret admiration"
2007-01-08 14:13:31 · answer #9 · answered by Mr_wall2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, the dance didn't mean near as much to him as it did to you. Forget it and move on. He isn't interested.
2007-01-08 14:13:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋