I really love my girlfriend and we are going to get married soon and I would love to make our relationship last because I love her so much.
2007-01-08 14:05:42 · 10 answers · asked by zilla_bird 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well i recommend that the relation u have dont change just because ur married, keep on being fun and exciting with her but still respect her more as ur wife. Remember to learn to live and accept things she is gonna do and things u might not like. Communication should be good. If theres anything u dont like, then talk to her and try to work things out. Just dont let things change keep on loving her and evrything. Congratulation on ur future marriage and good luck!
2007-01-08 14:12:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realize that being together and staying married doesnt mean you're going to feel this way forever. The feeling of love changes as time goes on. What's more important is that you stay friends and keep the trust going. Enlist the help of older family members if times get rough. Congratulations!!!
2007-01-08 22:53:42 · answer #2 · answered by cocoanutt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's no guarantee that it will last forever because things and people change but if you all keep the lines of communication open and have a relationship with love, trust, honesty, faithfulness, and all those good things, you'll have a better chance of making it last longer.
2007-01-08 22:10:10 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Marie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, get some pre-marital counselling. Many churches provide this, so ask if yours does. This counselling will give some helpful advice on dealing with arguments and compromising.
Second of all, realize that a good relationship means work. It doesn't mean happiness and smiles every day - it means sometimes she'll be upset and sometimes you'll fight, but you'll always talk about it and resolve the problem. Sometimes you'll have to give up more than her, and sometimes you'll have to give in completely. But a good, healthy relationship is where BOTH people do that...so sometimes you'll get your way, and sometimes she'll give up more than you, but you'll always be there for each other.
Good luck and God bless!
2007-01-08 22:16:15 · answer #4 · answered by Dilettante 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't mean to be a downer but nothing lasts forever. However, even at the risk of sounding extremely cliche, communication is the key to a lasting relationship.
2007-01-08 22:10:27 · answer #5 · answered by Ithy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck with that. There are no guarantees but if you are both dedicated to one another and your relationship,and stay that way, then chances are it'll last a good long time.
2007-01-08 22:09:48 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
After 36 years of marriage I've learned you need two things. First, you have to need each other. I needed my wife at home raising the children, and she needed me out working bringing home the paycheck. Second, you must have the same religion and practice it. Trust me, we're just a few who have made it this long out of all of our friends and relatives.
2007-01-08 22:14:17 · answer #7 · answered by mmm 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think you have to be honest, that way you can find problems and fix them. of course you have to respect each other, and try to solve problems in a constructive way. i think that if you do this it keeps you from having any other problems like cheating, or falling out of love, or misunderstanding.
2007-01-08 22:10:00 · answer #8 · answered by that girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
keep the flame goin, spice things up every now and then, dont stick to routine
2007-01-08 22:09:39 · answer #9 · answered by Mr_wall2005 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
take showers together
2007-01-08 22:09:24 · answer #10 · answered by Sonny E 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋