honestly,why do guys cheat?for example?

Question

if you have a beautiful wife that is sexy smart loving and has a career takes care of the kids cleans cooks and u have wild passionate kinky sex almost everynight would a guy still cheat?i mean is to have strange why? or do u think u would if u love her and her looks and her qualities answer honestly and have u ever

Answer 1

People do not cheat because there is something wrong with their partner or their relationship. They cheat to escape reality, to retreat into a fantasy world.

So it doesn't matter how perfect the partner, but how real the reality.

Answer 2

cheaters aren't happy with their lives, or their roles in life. they have no self esteem, and when they cheat it adds excitement, makes them feel younger, even if the wife is good looking, and has a good job, there are still problems in every marriage, and basically he wants to escape it, so he cheats, thinking the new person won't be like the spouse, but in reality in a year or so when they have left their marriage, and have the person they think they desire, the discontent will start all over again, they will find just as much fault with the new person, because real life, and reality are never without problems. he loves the new person because they are showing their best side, and maybe hiding some parts of themselves from the person. think no matter what that some men will always get bored and want something new.

Answer 3

Some people are just morons. It's really great we live in a society that offers so much opportunity, and it's great that we have choices. But imagine a kid in a candy store? Unfortunately and it seems like SO MANY PEOPLE ARE JUST MORONS they don't know how to resist temptation. They try and make like their in an awful marriage as an excuse to screw around always blaming but never taking responsibility to do the right thing. Big morons in a candy store. I know this much, the people who do cheat, are usually the ones with major personal issues!
Look at it this way if your man ever cheats on you, it wont be with anyone BETTER THEN YOU! married people in affairs tend to hook up with a much lower classification of their current spouses.

It pretty much sucks for the rest of us...

Answer 4

We usually cheat because we are not getting what we want at home. Still though, it is our fault most of the time, because we don't ask straight out for what we want from you. You say that you have sex almost every night, now ask your husband how often HE thinks you guys are having sex, the numbers may not be the same. And that would be the problem. My 2 cents.

Answer 5

Cause the other girl will do things that wifey won't.

Plus, with the other chick it's all a fantasy - but with your wife the sex (no matter how much and how freaky) is all tied up with the arguments about the bills and the phone call from the kid's teacher and the oven that's got to be fixed and who did the dishes tonight - it's just too damned real!!!

Answer 6

It's not a guy thing, it's a human thing. Women cheat, men cheat. It all depends upon the person. If they are cheating then they never really love the person they are with in the first place and don't respect them at all. Not every guy is like that and not every woman, but some are.

Answer 7

Men aren't the only ones who cheat. One diffference is that usually when men cheat, it is purely physical. Why? WHo knows why they do it. On the other hand many women get emotionally attached to other men -- you know - the guy who just wants to be a good friend (on the surface). These women can fall for these guys without anything physical. This is worse than the men having a physical affair!

Answer 8

for the same reason u women have a tender loving husband who
does'nt go out with the "boys" till the wee hours of the morning,
who works hard to provide for u and the kids,who is sensitive and
affectionate,a marvelous lover,who listens to you and is there for
you to laugh with and be a shoulder to cry on and so-on and so-on. only to have you dump him cause he's too boring,or your biker wife beatin ex-boyfriend is back in you life.
i've been the good husband mentioned here and it failed.
it works both ways,but to answer the question,i would never cheat or leave her PERIOD.

Answer 9

Give me a break. Women cheat just as often as men cheat. Sometimes the person doing the cheating is just plain bored with the same ol same ol.

Answer 10

A man cheats because he is insecure about himself, or is trying toprove that he is the bigger person and is control in the realationship. if i were you I would not let him push you around like that and allow him to do such a thing, you seem like a great wife, fantastic mother, and wild in bed, if he can't love that then that the hell is he doing with you..