Not a one night stand a date that was made or set up.Kissing , hugging, peck on check. no touching, lots of touching? Just more of a curious thought. Let me know if your male or female. I've been married a while so I am wondering what the standards are today. Be Honest if it's nothing it's nothing if it's all out screwing let it out. I don't judge and hell I don't know you.
2007-01-08 14:11:50 · 7 answers · asked by jweh8 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not what is for other people what do you think is right for you, yourself.
2007-01-08 14:26:42 · update #1
I'm a guy. Don't go overboard. Let her do what she wants, don't force anything. If she leans in for a kiss, by all means, kiss her, but don't be Dane Cook and expect head on a first date. A kiss is even a bit much, it depends if you knew her before this first date or not. No touching! A pretty good guideline I remember on first dates is always this:
Let her do what she wants, and don't intervene. The commandment of first dates! ;) Good luck.
2007-01-08 14:18:17 · answer #1 · answered by gamer92 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on what the people want. I've been on dates where I realized at the end of the evening that there really wasn't anything there (yeah, even after one date), and I didn't even want him kissing me on the cheek. Other dates, I wanted to jump the guy and go to bed with him and had to restrain myself, in which case we did some nice French kissing and saw each other again.
It's all over the map. Depending on the two people. I like a nice kiss at the end of a first date if it's clear that you both like one another. A little tongue, not too much, but enough to know that there is some attraction.
2007-01-08 14:28:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you're looking for. If you're looking for a relationship, and dating accordingly, then start with hand-holding, which will lead to an appropriate good night kiss at her door at the end of the evening.
If you're looking to screw around. Date women well below your level, and do whatever you want. They need the attention.
2007-01-08 14:17:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm female, and what's appropriate depends on the parties involved and their level of attraction/interest in each other...there is no limit, but if she would like to get to know him better, I'd recommend against sex on the first date (in case he's one of those that will do that, then hold it against the woman).
2007-01-08 14:18:07 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's up to the two people on the date as to what is appropriate. It's whatever they feel comfortable doing with each other.
2007-01-08 14:15:22 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the people.
If had sex on a first date.
If also had just a kiss on a first date.
I'm male.
2007-01-08 14:16:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe fingering, fondling, licking, but no penetration. That's unless, she's a ho and asks you to stick it in. Good luck
2007-01-08 14:17:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋