Family & Relationships - 8 January 2007

hi, i am freaked out. I am 19, I don't have a boyfriend, never have had one, and in general i tend to freeze completely in the presence of the opposite gender... Plus, i never have masturbated, the times i tried to hurt, and i do not understand my friends who tell me that this is so awesome and gives them so much pleasure. I have the feeling that i might be really socially impared.. and the thing is, i do not know what to do, how to act and stuff to let the guys know i m interested. besides, even if i do find someone, how will i tell him i m so unexperienced? What can I do? Do you have any advices? I feel cursed or something... I know i should not be but i am scared, and I don't want to appear desperate either... Help!

2007-01-08 14:34:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 14:34:06 · 13 answers · asked by thedumpdownguy 1 in Singles & Dating

why is it that when we fall in love or have a crush on someone we end up doing really silly things? At the start of course.

2007-01-08 14:33:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so i have been talking to a few guys on the internet from africa and within the first couple of chats they want to be your boyfriend and be with you and they care so much about you??? i don't get it they don't even know me. and know i am not talking dirty to them!!

2007-01-08 14:33:18 · 7 answers · asked by darkangel9076 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 14:32:44 · 1 answers · asked by chris 3 in Singles & Dating

I want to marry a girl who lives in the same town but I can’t marry her because she is carrier and me too. I have one brother who is not ok mentally. Gentics says that one male and one female of the same problem will be resulted in their offspring and 25% chances are there for such couple to have one victim if suppose they have 4 childern. She also has such brother who is said to be not ok metally. I know myself that I am the carrier and she too, as genetics says that one is victim and the rest of them are the carrier and if they repeat the case i.e. carrier male and carrier female will certainly have one victim.
Despite this scientific fact I like her and I am the only person who knows this phenomenon i.e. what genetics says. Should I reveal it I think I should but no body accepts that he/she is the carrier no body wants to be called or regarded as mentally upset.
Apart from this fact I want her to marry her because she is a nice and pretty woman and almost of my age I am 25 and she is elder than me perhaps 28.

2007-01-08 14:32:08 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

as the title says what are some good ways to prove to my parents im mature, im 16 years old, and they wont let me have a car, nor, my lisence, they say i am unmature.....they never give me any chances to prove my maturity, so when i tell them this they call me a smart ***, and thats why im not mature, please give me some help..im tired of being a bum, i want a car so i can get a job...

2007-01-08 14:31:55 · 11 answers · asked by Cameron M 1 in Family

What about her does it make them so nervous?

2007-01-08 14:31:48 · 9 answers · asked by Mara D 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a girl who just turned 18. I never had a boyfriend. But I'm always hanging around with my friend who is girl and we get along so well. I'm happy that way. We like hanging around, watching movies and going to shopping together. I have known her fo long enough and she is the coolest person I have ever known.

2007-01-08 14:31:38 · 13 answers · asked by Pretty 1 in Singles & Dating

step daughter hates step mother so much she does her best to turn the whole family against her and her father

2007-01-08 14:31:31 · 5 answers · asked by colleen s 1 in Family

I am a girl

2007-01-08 14:31:05 · 13 answers · asked by Mara D 1 in Singles & Dating

I went out with this guy one time and then I felt like I was the one trying to go out with him again (he never returned my calls, etc). Now that I am kinda ignoring him, he honks his horn when he sees me until I wave hello back and seems to be more interested. Do guys just like chasing a girl more than having her pursue them?

2007-01-08 14:30:02 · 14 answers · asked by Kelly 2 in Singles & Dating

Hello all. Im going on a date shortly. I have had a bad cold lately and have something ehich looks like a cold sore on my lip. I have never had a cold sore before so i dont think it is herpes related. Should i refrain from kissing my date. Problem is that this is the 3rd date and we are getting on pretty well. If i tell her i cant kiss her because of cold sore im worried she will think i am some sort of disease ridden scumbag who she will drop like a hot spud. Would really appreciate advice.

2007-01-08 14:29:52 · 8 answers · asked by Pa J 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 14:29:43 · 14 answers · asked by thedumpdownguy 1 in Singles & Dating

PERSONALITY? kindness, sweet, and loving?
is it rebel, do it your self type girl?
WEIGHT? skiny, thick, juicy?
APPERANCE?slim, curvy, love handles? do you like breast or bootys? or one more than the other or both?
EDUCATION?do she have to be smart or just know enough or a little?

do you like the fragile girls that always make you feel strong? Or the tough girls that can wwf smack down, play with you?

white, black, asian, hispanic, or the island girls? or the ones you can't tell what race they are?

blond, red, sandy brown, brown, or black hair?

WEALTH? do money and style matter?

DO NOT SAY ANY OR ALL WOMAN BEAUTIFUL! JUST YOUR OPIONION ON YOUR PERFECT WOMAN!

2007-01-08 14:29:06 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i personally think this question is lame

2007-01-08 14:28:59 · 21 answers · asked by Jeff B 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I knew that tonight was his night to watch the BCS bowl game with his buddies, but I wanted to remind him to call me after his plane landed tomorrow. I waited until halftime and everything so I wouldn't bother him. After he picked up I was like "Is this halftime? I just wanted to make sure." He was REALLY curt and said "Yeah, but the guys are over...!" (As IF I wanted to disturb his quality time)... and so then I kind of mumbled "Yeah, I know, just wanted to tell you to call me after you got there tomorrow. Bye."

Was his reaction even rational? I just feel kinda bad since I was trying to be considerate calling him during half, and caring about him getting to his destination safely...

2007-01-08 14:28:56 · 8 answers · asked by reba 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 14:28:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why do women lie and say the love you, get sex out of you and then leave? I mean I want love, I want to cuddle, talk about my feeling with her, you know be in love, and they just want sex, sex, sex...its ridiculous...

2007-01-08 14:28:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 14:27:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im debating if i should go on a date with my ex its been 3 months since the break up and i havent talked to her in a month or so she called me and asked if i wanted to be her date to a party for her work i want to make a good impression on her but not too much and do you think she still cares and maybe work things out i want her back not sure if this is a chance or not

2007-01-08 14:27:27 · 1 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend now for almost six months and he has been married three times already. I have never been married, we were talking about marriage for us in the future and he said that he really does not want a big wedding because this will be his fourth wedding. I am kind of upset about it because this is my first wedding and I want it to be special. It is not my fault that he has been married three times already. Should I not have my special wedding?

2007-01-08 14:27:18 · 24 answers · asked by spagirl23188 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm not sure where to begin and don't know what my resources are, especially since I've never done this before....Can anyone help? Thanks!

2007-01-08 14:26:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-01-08 14:26:38 · 13 answers · asked by lilly 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 14:26:18 · 8 answers · asked by Goldfish 1 in Friends

I'm 26...haven't been in a relationship since my divorce 2 years ago and have recently just started going out lately. I've tried everything, but it seems like I just end up meeting the same type of stereotypical girl out there. At the bars, which I know isn't the best place to meet someone to date, it's always meet a girl who is usually looking to get banged and move on..they're usually complete losers when you try to know them. The internet thing just doesn't work as the area I'm from doesn't really have anything too decent looking on there (not meaning looks look, but profile wise) and blind dates usually result in meeting up with someone with so many issues they're going through at the current moment. My only question is......where are the decent women hiding at? The romantic types who aren't shallow and don't care about douchebag things...the beautiful inside and out girls. It seems this whole Paris Hilton/Britney Spears/Linsday Lohan era has tainted the young women out there.

2007-01-08 14:26:07 · 15 answers · asked by Bill B 1 in Singles & Dating

you can use it as your mum, dad, friend or anyone... tell your deepest darkest secrets that your too scared to tell anyone and ill judge the best

2007-01-08 14:26:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My friend, whom I have no problem with has asked if my 2yr. old daughter would be in her wedding. My only regret is that her family has spread rumors about me being a drug user, and I don't want my children to associate with her family if they are going to talk rudely about me. I don't think it will be fair to my friend to not let my daughter be in her wedding. How would you address this delema?

2007-01-08 14:25:42 · 7 answers · asked by ThinkaboutThis 6 in Friends

I met this guy last night and it ended up leading to other things. I feel bad because i didn't really know him and i didn't want it to go to that level, but it did. It's only been a day but he hasn't called me yet and I'm worried that I'm gonna end up as just a one night stand and i really like him. Should i wait for him to call me or should i call him? i don't want to seem desperated but i don't want to seem like i don't care. Please help me!!!

2007-01-08 14:25:37 · 6 answers · asked by cortni 1 in Singles & Dating

It's no scret that many Asian girls including Chinese girls marry white men,but few white women marry Asain men.So what do you think of Asian men ?

2007-01-08 14:25:19 · 26 answers · asked by ♡Ling♫ 3 in Singles & Dating