I went out with this guy one time and then I felt like I was the one trying to go out with him again (he never returned my calls, etc). Now that I am kinda ignoring him, he honks his horn when he sees me until I wave hello back and seems to be more interested. Do guys just like chasing a girl more than having her pursue them?
2007-01-08 14:30:02 · 14 answers · asked by Kelly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To answer one response, no I did not have sex with him....never even kissed him.
2007-01-08 14:36:18 · update #1
Well You've got something he wants ,,,, Some guys enjoy the chase ,,,,, They think with their glands and pursue a girl and the more she resists the more exciting it is for him ,,,, If you've ever noticed a cat will not attack a mouse until the mouse moves or runs ,,,, Other animals are like that to ,,,,Big cats in Africa or other tropical jungles but this also Includes the human male no matter where he's at ,,,, Usually if the prey doesn't run the predator doesn't know what to do because it's part of their genetic and instinctive training that there has to be a chase ,,,, Some guys are like this ,,,, If the girl just gives up and gives him what he wants then he will take it but most likely won't be back for seconds ,,,, Most of the time though when they've finally won the prize it's the same way anyway and they will loose interest almost immediately and move on to other game ,,,, lol ,,,, You were presenting no challenge to him when you were trying to call him ,,,, But look at what's happening now that you are ignoring him lolol ,,,, For them the chase is part of the fun and excitement as well as the actual sex act itself ,,,, Normally these guys never settle down to just one woman though unless they are particularly taken by someone ,,,, these type of guys are always on the prowl ,,,, Especially around bars or clubs ,,,, The down side to this though is that they are more susceptible STD's ,,,, Not only contracting something but also passing it on ,,,, Be careful what you get mixed up with ,,,,,,
2007-01-08 15:08:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends. You both need to be supportive of each other, and take turns giving each other love and respect. When you ignore him, he sees that as a red signal. That is why he responds more. However, when you are the more outgoing one, he sees that as a green light and decides everything is okay because you are okay. Make sure to talk things over with him to balance it out, not going back and forth between the two of you.
2007-01-08 14:34:55 · answer #2 · answered by qtshakeshake93 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i honestly think they do.. me and a guy were going so downhill after he lost the chase cause he knew i was all into him.. then i stopped talking to him for like 2 weeks and now suddenly he's always msging me and apologizing and ****.. but i kno if i went back to him he'd do the same thing again.. some guys just loooove the chase.. guys who have game that is.. cause they know how to play the field
2007-01-08 14:35:26 · answer #3 · answered by hairkair 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Things tt come too easily won't be cherished.
When you turn around and attemptted to date him instead... he probably felt it was not much of a challenge. So he wants you to linger for him longer.
Think about your past, did any guys attempted very hard to date you but he ended up with your the cold shoulders? If yes, then its more or less the same here.
2007-01-08 14:37:14 · answer #4 · answered by Chips 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh yeah....the thrill of the hunt. I think it's naturally born in some guys...however most have some control over it or grow out of it. This guy sounds like an attention seeking loser that only wants what he can't have. Keep on ignorning him and move on......it's a great indication that he's immature.
2007-01-08 14:34:30 · answer #5 · answered by Justlookin 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maximum men think of its cute formerly each thing, then worrying, then thoroughly stressful and then they circulate on. so do not do it for too long. they like what they'd't have. waiting makes the having extra relaxing and correctly worth at the same time as.
2016-10-30 09:44:22 · answer #6 · answered by deliberato 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys do. Some girls also like to chase.
2007-01-08 14:36:03 · answer #7 · answered by fdm215 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO
Why play games...be honest and up front always..
the like the chase if they just want to screw you and leave you
2007-01-08 14:34:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No that is just a male playing childish games. But some males like it, just to show off, but whatever
2007-01-08 14:34:24 · answer #9 · answered by tuffchevy86 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Men LIKE a challenge. To my way of thinking, it is the gentleman's role to pursue........ and the lady's role to give opportunity to do so (if she is interested)
2007-01-08 14:35:44 · answer #10 · answered by Janet 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋