My friend, whom I have no problem with has asked if my 2yr. old daughter would be in her wedding. My only regret is that her family has spread rumors about me being a drug user, and I don't want my children to associate with her family if they are going to talk rudely about me. I don't think it will be fair to my friend to not let my daughter be in her wedding. How would you address this delema?
2007-01-08 14:25:42 · 7 answers · asked by ThinkaboutThis 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
perhaps whilst telling your friend you agree that your daughter can take part in her wedding you raise the issue say something like i have no problem with my daughter blah blah then something like but there is this one thing on my mind... i'd appreciate it if you would talk to your family about... or perhaps you'd like to talk to the people directly
either way honesty is the key you need to resolve the issue =) hope all goes well
2007-01-08 14:41:31 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say nothing to the family...I would allow your daughter to be in your friends wedding...While there just smile at these folk and you dont even have to talk to them...This is for your friend F*** them and what they think of you....
2007-01-08 22:48:55 · answer #2 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all a two year old doesn't make a good flower girl and that's what you should tell your friend.
I would think her for thinking of your daughter but I would say no thank you.
Why put yourself and your daughter through that?
2007-01-08 22:36:43 · answer #3 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would let my daughter be in the wedding and if anyt body says any thing just tell your freind that if they don't stop that your dauhter will NOT be in her wedding
2007-01-09 00:14:00 · answer #4 · answered by he's my everything <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it wasn't your friend that did this to you, I don't think she should suffer for it. It would be a different thing if her whole family was asking you a favor but it's something that has to do with just her.
2007-01-08 23:00:04 · answer #5 · answered by blank 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront the family about it, and if they still think you are, dont let her accociate with them, obviously theyre not wirth her time anyway if tehy've nothing better to do but think up lies... unless its true, but i doubt it,
2007-01-08 22:32:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
two is way to young to be in a wedding!!!!!!!=D
2007-01-08 22:57:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋