I'm a girl who just turned 18. I never had a boyfriend. But I'm always hanging around with my friend who is girl and we get along so well. I'm happy that way. We like hanging around, watching movies and going to shopping together. I have known her fo long enough and she is the coolest person I have ever known.
2007-01-08 14:31:38 · 13 answers · asked by Pretty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think guys are cute by the way
2007-01-08 15:23:16 · update #1
Maybe you're just curious. You should try dating men before you make up your mind. Just because you feel good about your friendship, doesn't make it something worth pursuing.
2007-01-08 14:36:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not, I don't think you're either. Since you haven't been around males a lot I think you are just more prone to getting along with females better. That doesn't mean your gay or anything like that. This is probably your mind "experimenting" with different types of lifestyles right now. The farthest I've gone with a guy is making out, and I've only kissed two guys and I mostly hang around girls. Sometimes I get those "Could I be bi?" days, but to be honest, I think whether anyone wants to believe or not, everyone is a little bi. I'm sure your fine, and remember, just because you've never had a boyfriend doesn't mean anything! Your time just hasn't probably come yet. Observe yourself a little more and see if you're more attracted to girls or guys. Good luck! ;-)
2007-01-08 22:38:01 · answer #2 · answered by lildevilgurl152004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that all depends on if you are sexually attracted to her. like do you ever wonder what it might be like if you two hooked up? if so then you are bi-curious. do constantly think about her and how much you wanna do her and be with her and maybe get married and adopt kids? if so, then you are a lesbian. maybe you just have a really strong bond between the two of you and that's something you really like and you love her as a sister. i honestly think there is nothing to worry about. i think also since you have never had a bofriend, you confide in this girl and trust her and almost wish she was a guy. you probably think she'd be perfect dating material, if only she wee a guy. this is what's confusing you. don't worry. get out more, meet new guys. remember, love is love and it's never a bad thing to be single.
2007-01-08 22:38:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first off you have to be attracted to her. It doesn't sound like you're attracted, it just sounds like your attached. Maybe you're just a bit confused 'cause you haven't had a boyfriend/girlfriend, so you're not sure what love's supposed to feel like. My friend went through the same stage and she went from bi to gay. After accepting who she was, she could finally figure out what her preference was.
What it comes down to is that if you like girls only then you're gay and if you're attracted sometimes to girls and sometimes to boys, then you're bi. Best of luck ^_^
2007-01-08 22:40:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anodyne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your not. shes just a good friend that you enjoy hanging out with. the only thing that will make you gay or bi, would be if you two kissed, or have intimate relations. if you dont then nope i dont consider that being a lesbian at all.
2007-01-08 22:36:45 · answer #5 · answered by hotty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think so...
do u like guys? just cuz u dont have a bf doesnt mean u dont like em... and if u like guys u prolly aint gay!! i have FANTASTIC best friends, but i LUV guys... unless u have like feelings 4 ur friends, like i guess u wanna kiss her or something, like touch her, then ur gay/bi, depending on wheter u like guys or not. hope this helps!!
2007-01-08 22:46:17 · answer #6 · answered by cutie317 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this don't make u bi or gay unless you want more with her!!!! if don't see yourself having a sexual relationship with her then you are still straight regardless to weather or not you have had a boyfriend....
2007-01-08 22:37:56 · answer #7 · answered by Sherman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep living. You'll find out soon enough---only time will tell.
2007-01-08 22:38:13 · answer #8 · answered by jandracu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time, you could be bi tho. It's ok!
2007-01-08 22:36:16 · answer #9 · answered by arecibena_ausente 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that does NOT mean you're gay, you know. you are just best friends. that's it.
2007-01-08 22:37:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋