Genetics fact and Love?

Question

I want to marry a girl who lives in the same town but I can’t marry her because she is carrier and me too. I have one brother who is not ok mentally. Gentics says that one male and one female of the same problem will be resulted in their offspring and 25% chances are there for such couple to have one victim if suppose they have 4 childern. She also has such brother who is said to be not ok metally. I know myself that I am the carrier and she too, as genetics says that one is victim and the rest of them are the carrier and if they repeat the case i.e. carrier male and carrier female will certainly have one victim.
Despite this scientific fact I like her and I am the only person who knows this phenomenon i.e. what genetics says. Should I reveal it I think I should but no body accepts that he/she is the carrier no body wants to be called or regarded as mentally upset.
Apart from this fact I want her to marry her because she is a nice and pretty woman and almost of my age I am 25 and she is elder than me perhaps 28.

Answer 1

So what is the problem?

Answer 2

marry her! genetics isn't everything. Odds point to you not having a 'victim' child. there would be greater odds probably if you married a random person!