How can I win her back?

Question

I've been going out with this girl for almost 7 years, then out of the blue she broke up with me. She stated that she loves me, she can’t marry me and that I should find someone better then her. I stated that I’m old enough to make that decision and I love her so much. My problem was that I did not her that I love her until a week before the break up. I pushed her away for so many years and now I need her back, I love her so much that my heart hurts. I never cheated on her. We have not seen each other for 2 months now . I called her she said don’t call for another month. She said she wants to be friends but not yet. Because she loves me and its to hard for her. A month before the break up she told my friends that she loves me so much. When I told her that im in lover with her and I want to marry her an have kids, few weeks after that she broke up with me. She went so cold. What can I do. She asked me to marry last year and I said im not interested. I have broken her heart. In 2 months I stepped into he shoes and I have changed for the better. We spoke to each other on the phone 5 times a week and see each other 2 a week and now she went cold, she does not call me or email me. We made each other so happy and we connected on so many levels. I thought she was 'the one' and now I'm beside myself. I MUST win her back! How do I convince her though that I have changed and I want her back

Answer 1

boy u just lost her.. totally. i'm sorry. but if you REALLY want to win her back.. try the old ways.. flowers, cards, chocolates.. the works..serenade her if you must. talk to her family and friends to set you with a date.. PROVE TO HER YOU"VE REALLY CHANGED..