My perception sensed im become really a woman that if i could have a relationship in a man I will really care myself,my dignity and my purity as a woman..Specailly your virginity.For me virginity is very much important coz except the love that you could give in your future husband it would a good gift that he was the 1st.Some of my friends told me that it was b4 and its an old fashioned..So am i right to stand in my faith that sex after marriage?
2007-01-08 14:11:46 · 19 answers · asked by grace 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes, it is right. You should be proud of yourself and hold your head up high. I love to hear when a young woman is holding her ground and not letting bad influences change her mind. You wait until you find the man of your dreams. You'll be glad you did. I'm sure God is also pleased with you. May he bless you and all you do.
2007-01-08 14:18:14 · answer #1 · answered by mamabear 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I strongly agree and applaud you for your stand on your convictions. The man that you choose as your mate will be very lucky. There are a lot of lies and deceptions passed around.such as It is old fashion to wait. That is a lie. You can never get your purity back. In an age when teenage pregnancy running rampant. All kind of disease being passed around..It should scare every one of us to follow your example another lie being bought into is to live together is a way for trial marriage. If we believe that we are deceived.. of 100 couples starting out living together 40 will break up before they marry 35 will divorce leaving 25% that make it. as you can see you are on the right track stick to it.
2007-01-08 14:40:27 · answer #2 · answered by Roger W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should defiantely wait if that's what you want to do. There are plently of guys out there that would respect your decision and even be impressed. Hell I wish I would have waited for marriage lol. Just decided to go celebate for the passed year and a half because society is way too focused on sex. Just make sure that you dont rush into a marriage that isn't going to last just so you can have sex with someone .
2007-01-08 14:19:48 · answer #3 · answered by Somebuddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You are totally right. Why have sex before and risk all kinds of things.. pregnency etc. Virginity is a choice, and if it's what you want it is a great choice. So many people are willing to throw their relationship issues out the window just because some guy tells her she's good looking. You are not that kind of person. Good for you.
2007-01-08 14:40:34 · answer #4 · answered by WhatTheFrenchToast? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your virginity is your prized possession, carry with pride. It isn't old fashion to get married a virgin , in fact that it what girls are suppose to be on the first marriage. Your will be your first and that is very exceptional because you see very few girls that are still, a virgin , but is not old fashion, your husband will have the greatest respect for you.
2007-01-08 14:30:36 · answer #5 · answered by Nicki 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It may be an old-fashioned concept to wait to have sex after marriage, but it's still appropriate for many people today. You have to do what's right for you and your beliefs, and don't worry about what others think or say. Would you regret losing your virginity if you don't wait til marriage? You can't get it back, so think carefully!
2007-01-08 14:17:15 · answer #6 · answered by Deborah C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are.
Your body is yours, not theirs - it doesn't matter what anybody else thinks, YOU get to decide when to give the gift of your virginity, and saving it for your husband is a considerate and generous thing to do - if it's old-fashioned, it's only because so many people these days aren't very patient or considerate.
2007-01-08 14:18:39 · answer #7 · answered by Dilettante 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are certainly within your rights to hold off having sex until after you are married. Nothing at all wrong with that. If the man you find truly loves you, he will respect your wishes and not pressure you to have sex until you are married. Don't listen to your friends and do what you feel is right.
2007-01-08 14:19:31 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everything the world considers "old fashioned" is bad. Look at it this way... if more women insisted on staying virgin until they married, most of the questions posted on this board would disappear.
You are right, keep the faith.
2007-01-08 14:18:43 · answer #9 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing wrong with waiting...though a lot of good guys wont even wait that long. but at the same time its not a bad thing to have sex just dont be slutty and make sure u both care about each other first. either way its up to u.
2007-01-08 14:16:08 · answer #10 · answered by mr_fury666 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋