my sister got attcked from a man and her husband is asking her why he did that?

Question

my sister and her kids were in the car and this guy came and start swearing on her and giving her the finger,
she called the police and after that she called her husband who he was inside the store when this happened and his response was ( why this guy was attacking you? ) she told him i do not know it might because i am Muslim and wearing the hijab. and her husband kept asking but why???/
now my sister is very hurt from her husband and i keep telling her to not think about it . and she says that she feels that he failed of protecting her by asking this questions.
so what do you think is she overreacting ?

there was nothing going on between my sister and this man, my sister was on the car with her kids laughing and joking and this guy came , parked his car next to her and start giving her the finger and swearing at her, and when she told him she will be calling the police , he came very close to the car door and she locked the car right away,
as her kids start screaming and crying , and the man when he came back to his car my sister was on the phone with the police he called the police and told them that she took his parking spot ( when she was parking there for 30 min before he come) and that she start harassing hem, and he did not wait for the police he just left before they arrive,
that what the police told her and after they asked her kids what is going on , they told her that he is just bad and not good man and they will go to his home and talk to him ( yell at him ),
but they can't charge him with anything at all,

Answer 1

they both are
It was a bad deal sorry to hear of something like this

Answer 2

Maybe the husband was a bit shocked.....news like that isn't often given over a cell phone when you're walking distance apart. He could have just temporarily been trying to make sense of it. They need to talk it and get to the bottom of it......she needs to know why he reacted so poorly.

Answer 3

there must have some misunderstanding between ur sis n that man.try to find out the reasons first n lodge a police report nearby asap.her husband is too worry n maybe too overreacting then.
best wishes.

Answer 4

Probably not.. The guy should be more protective.. But then again he's probably thinking the guy had a real reason.. But most likely the guy was just a common jerk and everything will be ok

Answer 5

Well her husband needs to get off his high horse and realize that she said she does not know why that man did what he did. Tell her that some people do not respect people for who they are because they are ignorant, and somethimes you just have to ignore them, to get them to leave you alone. And her husband, if i knew him, i would prolly slap the crap out of him, and tell him to learn some frikkin manners and respect for his wife.

Answer 6

Of course she's overreacting! She's just a woman after all.

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Her husband is an @R$E!

Answer 7

It sounds like her husband doesn't trust her.. But yes it also sounds like the husband was lacking in protecting his wife and kids... they could have been killed... I hate it when men make it all bout themselves... and he was more concern that his pride was hurt thinking that his wife was messing around on him than really seeing the big picture.. that his wife and children could have been hurt really bad... Sounds like a looser to me...

Answer 8

When in Rome,do as the Romes do!!! Take the hijab off and wear what the Romans wear.

Answer 9

what kind of husband is this? he failed to protect his wife.he should confront that man at least to protect his wife.and nope she is not overreacting ask her to calm down and not to think too much.

Answer 10

That is what is called wedding vows when you are going through the marriage ceremony.