Family & Relationships - 8 January 2007

I had several previous partners before I marriage and found all of the woman enjoyed having me during the night. Now two years of being married my wife still does not like oral sex, I don't insist on it for her as she does not want it but when I request if she would like that little extra she is just not interested. I would have thought a wife would love recieving all the love from her husband, I can't understand why she would want to miss out on it.

2007-01-08 15:33:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Muscles,
Face/Head,
Fame,
Hair?,
Personality,
Courage,
or if I didn't name one put it on the list...

2007-01-08 15:33:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 15:33:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

About a week before Christmas, I bought this woman I know a really sexy Santa hat as a joke. Now, here we are two weeks past Christmas and she won't leave me alone. A few nights ago, for instance, she showed up at my door at 2 A.M. in her nighty wanting to know if she could come in. Being the nice guy that I am, I said, "Yes, but only for a minute". Big mistake. I ended up having to help her put her nighty back on and driving her home. Since then, she's become even more fanatical than before. She calls my residence constantly and drives around the block several times a day to see if I'm home. I have no idea what to do about her. She's a really nice person who for some unexplained reason has become obsessed with me. I don't want to hurt her by calling the police and having her arrested. This woman is throwing herself at me, and to make matters worse, she's 20 years my junior and "hot" as h***! I need help bad as she is chipping away at my resistance. What should I do?

2007-01-08 15:32:56 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am looking for a good compromise with my bride to be. She would like to have Wonderful Tonight as our first dance, but I would like something with a more Swing beat to it.
So my plan is to re-mix Wonderful tonight and half way through put in a diffrent song. My problem is I can not decide which song to use, can you help?

The whole idea is to have a Dirty Dancing movie effect, where we start out slow and then go into a swing.

2007-01-08 15:31:21 · 10 answers · asked by bornstni 1 in Weddings

asked for a divorce,gotten written up at work and goes out at night and gets home at 5 A.M and has to get up at 6 for work.Last night after work,she comes home and falls asleep.3A.M this morning she is in the room talking on the phone to who knows who.She gets up at the normal time to go to work.I find this behavior a 360 of who she is. She is lying every chance she gets and doesnt like you questioning her about anything.Is this drug behavior?She is 33 and has never been a drinker or someone who does drugs,like I have said,she has been one of the more responsible people Ive ever known.I could go on but i am going to run out of space.Any help is appreciated

2007-01-08 15:30:17 · 22 answers · asked by dlbonhomme 1 in Marriage & Divorce

For the love of God, don't tell me that I have to write one myself. I'm not a lazy guy, but God didn't give me good poem writing skills (I only like poems that rhyme real well, that's why). There are some requirements, if you please.
1. It should rhyme or be beautiful in some way.
2. No ye olde English. Something someone can understand.
3. It's for my girlfriend, so nothing about "waking up to our kids" or something
4. Or you can give me some pointers in choosing a poem/writing one

2007-01-08 15:30:08 · 8 answers · asked by demon_card99 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 15:29:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-01-08 15:29:06 · 22 answers · asked by matman 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 15:28:59 · 8 answers · asked by wagma r 1 in Friends

I really really like him and my friends think me and him are perfect 4 eachother but i don't know if i should im really scared (what should i do?)

2007-01-08 15:28:57 · 7 answers · asked by killer.bebe 1 in Singles & Dating

My partner of four years who i have a 4 month old daughter with has done the following things during our four year relationship and feels like I have overracted about them. Do you feel these things are right or wrong?

Signed up for dating sites, where he created a profile looking for other women for "one on one sex" and claiming he was well endowed.
Visited strip clubs on numerous occaisons
Went to the bar and out drinking with his friends at least twice a month leaving me home while i was pregnant
Searched local escort services on our computer
Watches porn minutes after I leave for work (found time frame from search history)
Has other women call his cellphone
Had 1 900 number show up on our phone bill

this is all i can think of right now.

2007-01-08 15:28:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

maybe i am not lucky in love.....i just can't find some1 for me....i need a SWEET girl any1 offer ? :(

2007-01-08 15:28:15 · 3 answers · asked by corpsdevorator 3 in Singles & Dating

Not to long ago I posted a question cause I tought it would be useful instead I got all this answers that were rude and a waist of time. Don't get me wrong their were some good ones too. If you have nothing nice to say don't say nothing at all. Calling me tacky and classless makes you the same way.

2007-01-08 15:27:39 · 10 answers · asked by cynthiagalaviz1985 1 in Weddings

describe him/her in a song, in a poem, in plain sentence format..anything!

And briefly say why he was the best.

2007-01-08 15:27:34 · 5 answers · asked by tigress 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a university student who is interested in this girl, who's a friend of a friend. The problem is that she just recently broke-up with her boyfriend (approx. 3 weeks ago) and apparently they were seeing each other for 3 years or so. I know nothing about the break-up, like whether she's hurt or if she broke it off with him...actually, i'm not even suppose to know that she's single. We hangout often with other friends and lately i've been receiving vibes that she's interested in me but I never make advances. I'm totally comfortable with asking her out...but is it too soon to do this?...especially since i'm not even suppose to know that she broke-up with her ex?

2007-01-08 15:27:08 · 16 answers · asked by Sonny E 4 in Singles & Dating

The thing is my girl is very social, she hangs out a lot with her friends, which include a number of boys too. Which by the way i don't mind at all. But the thing that really bThe thing is my girl is very social; she hangs out a lot with her friends, which include a number of boys too. Which by the way I don't mind at all. But the thing that really bothers me is that, she forgets about me when she's with them, it means that she don’t call or answer my messages. And this is very hurting. Can anyone advise on this?thers me is that, she forgets about me when she's with them, it means that she dont call or answer my messages. And this is very hurting. Can anyone advise on this?

2007-01-08 15:26:59 · 11 answers · asked by Demonic Angel 1 in Singles & Dating

Just wanted to throw this one out there. People are entitlted to their privacy, but to what extent? You can read a lot about wives/girlfriends snooping on their husbands/boyfriends computer due to lack of trust or for whatever reason. I don't condone this behavior, but is it not just as bad to hide for example pornographic material from your partner. Is this not a form of lack of trust? If both parties are adults then why the secrecy? What if the female was as equally interested in porn and enjoyed it as well, would there still be a need for it to be locked away?

Very curious...

2007-01-08 15:25:49 · 33 answers · asked by betty p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm sick of hearing people begrudging the act of paying their portion of raising their kids. It makes us all look bad.
I have never been a single day late on mine in 8 years and pay it willingly and proudly every month but because of the other type who create the stereotype I have to look bad.
Why don't all parents who pay it do so with pride and dignity.

2007-01-08 15:25:39 · 13 answers · asked by jaynang_99 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a Bangalorean, Engineer.

2007-01-08 15:25:03 · 7 answers · asked by shanky 1 in Friends

what would you do if you found out that you boyfriend MIGHT only like you for your body?

2007-01-08 15:24:44 · 15 answers · asked by Chris 3 in Singles & Dating

If I had to go back out there right now and date again - I'd like a bit of insight into what I am facing. I can't be 20, super blonde with a quarter-bouncing butt. But do you men really want only that?

2007-01-08 15:24:41 · 3 answers · asked by iamofnote 3 in Singles & Dating

Before I went out with my last boyfriend I was very independent, didnt like spending all my time with the person i was going out with, that sort of thing. We fell in love and things changed for me. when i moved away for college(400 miles away) I became really attached to talking to him on the phone all the time and when i went back for the holidays i spent as much time with him as possible. We broke up because he cheated on me but now i dont know how to get my old self back. I want to be carefree and independent again but i still have the urge to call him...kinda like i need him in my life. i know i dont but i still cant get over that urge. any tips?

2007-01-08 15:24:07 · 16 answers · asked by J dot PONY 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband confessed to me that he was checking out girls at work and thinking about how to cheat on me. He was planning to.
this has been a big hit to me. It makes me feel so ugly and insufficient, and dirty....like, "I stayed a virgin for him?"

we've only been married a year...so it makes me worry.
he told me this without any prompting because he's sorry and he feels like I have the right to know.
I love him so much and I would never leave him.
I told him I forgave him....
but in my heart I am angry and extremly depressed.
How do I forgive him?

2007-01-08 15:23:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I want to get married by end of 2007, beg. of 2008. The cheapest I have found is about 70-80 a plate and that includes tax and everything. I live in central NJ do if anyone can help, it would be great!

2007-01-08 15:23:53 · 5 answers · asked by Sarah G 1 in Weddings

And that for both male and female!

2007-01-08 15:22:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We have been together in relationship for a year. But he was a friend of mine last 3 years. We got a crushed in each other.

As a friend everything is fine til when we were into relationship. There are so many problems. Example he still contact his 4yrs ex but it seems i feel something is cheeky going on. But i tried to trust him 99%.

We are planning to get engage next yr. But how do i find out that he is being faithful with me? Is there any way that i can find out?

I dun want be just blinded by love. Tho we know each other years.

2007-01-08 15:21:33 · 6 answers · asked by Murni Sad Adi 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 15:21:30 · 16 answers · asked by wagma r 1 in Friends

what kind of things do guys like girls to do for them? how do you like girls to flirt with you.? do guys like tounge in a kiss?
what do you like in a girl? do you prefer a tomb boy slash girly girl or full girly girl or whole tomb boy. does a girl look better with her hair down or up? what could a girl do to impress a guy in general

2007-01-08 15:21:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 15:20:57 · 8 answers · asked by Marty R 2 in Weddings