I had several previous partners before I marriage and found all of the woman enjoyed having me during the night. Now two years of being married my wife still does not like oral sex, I don't insist on it for her as she does not want it but when I request if she would like that little extra she is just not interested. I would have thought a wife would love recieving all the love from her husband, I can't understand why she would want to miss out on it.
2007-01-08 15:33:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If she doesn't like it, then don't do it. Some women and some men for that matter don't like oral sex. People make too big a deal about it. It's just that some people don't find it enjoyable.
2007-01-08 15:39:27 · answer #1 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Have you thought that it might be something that embarrasses her? Seriously, even though you're married that may be something that's hard for her to "give" to you. And, if you aren't doing it the way she would like you to, she may prefer you don't do it at all. There are a 100 reasons why she may not want this to happen, but you need to ask HER. Until you candidly sit down and talk with her nothing will change and you will forever sit around and ask why she doesn't like this and another 2 years will go by and still no answers. Yes, it's a hard subject to address sometimes, but it sounds like you think she's worth it so do your best to gently but honestly ask what she likes, what she doesn't like...that sort of thing. If she gets embarrassed just let her know how much it means to you to know what's going on and how much you care about her. No woman could resist a man who tells her that...:)
2007-01-08 15:51:49 · answer #2 · answered by Jenny S. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey there
Don't fill bad I've been married for 17 years and my wife does not like oral sex at all. All my girl friends be for her loved it and so did I . Yer its real strange why some girls don't like oral bit at lease you no shes not the only one good luck maybe one day you might get lucky.
2007-01-08 17:03:11 · answer #3 · answered by Daniel M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's lots of things that may cause her to 'not' want oral sex.
But, she could also be one of those women who 'really' don't like it, and again, this could be for several reasons.
She may have a 'phobia' which was created by the male species of our society, who have proclaimed, sometimes 'loudly', that
a womans vagina stinks, or smells really 'bad'.
But a woman who keeps herself clean doesn't have this problem,
only UN-kept (dirty) women will have a bad odor.
But this could be something that bothers her..
The only way to know for sure is to 'calmly' ask her, and let her
know you are just curious because you only want to please her
in any way you can..
Also, she may simply be too embarassed..
2007-01-08 17:27:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello,
well i am also one that doesn't get any thing from oral sex....i can really live with out it.....but my play toy insist and of course i don't turn it down because it turns him on....so may be if you tell her that it excites you more maybe she will go for it...also have her show you what she likes and you show her what you like....you need to be paitent with each other.....and explore with each other....take every thing slow and make real love to your wife and show her that your interested in every inch of her and m aybe that will help.....good luck
2007-01-08 15:42:51 · answer #5 · answered by wendy p 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I neither but Help me a lot my husband seduce me one day using my favorite wine ...first cherring it on my mouth and them he puts wine on his sex... I tasted and I couldn;t stop sucking it...
I dont like oral sex because...
-of his size /.. its too big for the size of my mouth !!
-my teeth are not right
-has to be very clean... I don't like his smell
- My first boyfriend show me his sex not in a suitable way that I rejected him !...
I never gave reasons to my husband in order to avoid hurt his sensibility and griefs...
Thanks God he discovered it by himself... ....
2007-01-08 16:25:17 · answer #6 · answered by putsicat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, if my husband was volunteering to give me oral sex I wouldn't turn it down. I never get it- tell your wife she's very fortunate!!!!
2007-01-08 15:37:36 · answer #7 · answered by JustMyOpinion 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Some people like it some people don't so don't get too tore up about it i mean it's not the end of the world but in my opinion it's great but I'm not her.
2007-01-08 16:25:49 · answer #8 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some women just don't think it's right.
2007-01-08 15:39:42 · answer #9 · answered by Don S 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she is repressed or your technique is lacking. Try to get her to communicate with you about what's bothering her. We surely cannot know.
2007-01-08 15:39:55 · answer #10 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋