I hate this life....what a good man should do to have a nice and kind and lovely girlfriend?? -.-?

Question

maybe i am not lucky in love.....i just can't find some1 for me....i need a SWEET girl any1 offer ? :(

Answer 1

You can't ever go under the assumption that your heart will always get broken. If you do the relationship won't ever happen because you'll be waiting for the inevitable bomb to drop and almost dooming the relationship from the start. Everyone has had their heart broken many times but it's what you choose to do about it is totally up to you. You can live in fear that this is going to always happen or you can reevaluate what it is you want in a relationship, learn from your mistakes and get back on the horse and keep trying. That's all we can do until we get it right!!

Answer 2

I know precisely what you mean. I am good friends with two guys (twins) who have zero problems with girls. They keep telling me tales of how women had gone up to them that day to give THE GUY their number. These guys have it easy. And not only are they (I guess) good looking and they have good personalities (though they admit that they can't commit and would cheat even on the most perfect woman alive - I've asked and one of them said yes he would cheat on her) they are also extremely lucky. This amazingly perfect... you what? She is without a doubt the most perfect girl I have ever known in my LIFE who I know I am absolutely perfect for. She doesn't see me one iota. I don't even register on her radar as a friend, much less a future husband. But this one twin, he got to walk her into class the first day of class. Now they are very good friends (nothing more). Had I only arrived at the class at the right time I know that she would be in love with me by now. But she's long gone now.

I work downtown and I see gorgeous women I JUST missed getting off the elevator. I had to take a different elevator. I always just miss them by seconds. I mean it, in one month, I will leave the parking garage elevator to see that I missed an opportunity to talk to a gorgeous girl on an elevator I'd say about 15 times. I actually get to ride in an elevator with a gorgeous girl once every 3 months. And I'm not exaggerating. I'm not complaining either. I'm just stating the fact that I'm unlucky too and a LOT of what people state as personality or good looks is nothing of the sort. It's just luck. How do you get a perfect 10? Shoot, I only even catch a glimpse of a nearly perfect 9 about 4 or 5 times a year! I've actually met precisely two in my whole life! And even if I do get to know a great girl, odds are that she will already be taken. A guy has got to be EXTREMELY lucky to win a great girl.

You have to improve your odds. I started going to dance class. I met 3 girlfriends there... so far. Go to places that cater to the kinds of girls you like. And get involved enough so you can actually meet them. Yes, just about every girl is going to go to the grocery store, but you have to get lucky about getting there at the right time and you actually have to cold-talk to them - go up to her as a stranger and turn yourself into a lover all on your charm and looks. Good luck with that. Church singles events are also supposedly good places to meet good sweet girls. I'm going to try that soon. I suggest you do it too. But don't forget dance class. Dancing is the best icebreaker.

Answer 3

it takes time to find the right person. and hey maybe the right girl could be like right under your nose but you just dont know it!