My partner of four years who i have a 4 month old daughter with has done the following things during our four year relationship and feels like I have overracted about them. Do you feel these things are right or wrong?
Signed up for dating sites, where he created a profile looking for other women for "one on one sex" and claiming he was well endowed.
Visited strip clubs on numerous occaisons
Went to the bar and out drinking with his friends at least twice a month leaving me home while i was pregnant
Searched local escort services on our computer
Watches porn minutes after I leave for work (found time frame from search history)
Has other women call his cellphone
Had 1 900 number show up on our phone bill
this is all i can think of right now.
2007-01-08 15:28:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ANY activity in which he chooses someone else other than you to satisfy his primary needs is cheating, whether it's for sex or for emotional needs. The problem is that you have a daughter with him. I'd say dump him but for that. You should have married him before, but it's too late for that. Now you should get couple's counseling and then get married.
2007-01-08 17:00:24 · answer #1 · answered by SmartAlex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being FAR too lenient.
This guy is not only obviously cheating on with blatantly, but he's also making no attempt at all to hide it. Not only does this make him a two-timer, it also makes him a heartless and unfeeling jerk who couldn't care less about anyone other than his own selfishness.
Every single one of those acts are cheating except for the watching porn. All males do that. But as for all the other ones?
That's a sure sign to break it off. You deserve better than a guy who places you as second resort.
2007-01-08 23:37:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
CHEAT-ER
Actually, I think he may be a sex addict.
I'm sorry, it's a really sad situation. My suggestion to you, though, is that you need to leave him. If he is having promiscuous sex, you need to protect yourself from STDs.
Try to convince him he has a problem and maybe he'll seek therapy.
If he give therapy an earnest try maybe the two of you have a chance for a future later on.
But for now, you need to let him know that this behavior can not be tolerated.
2007-01-08 23:35:08 · answer #3 · answered by Tiff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating sites - yes
Strip clubs - no
Bar with friends - no
Escort service - yes
Porn - not really
Other women - most definitely
1-900 numbers - depends on what they're for...
2007-01-08 23:34:55 · answer #4 · answered by Vexer D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe all of them are cheating, and i believe you don't need a man like that. if he loves you, why does he need a dating site, or a strip club or a 1 900 number or escorts or whatever else?? he is a loser.
2007-01-08 23:43:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe all or most of those things can be considered cheating, with exception of watching porn. But everything else is very bad. You should dump that guy.
2007-01-08 23:34:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your boyfriend cheats. If he doesn't cheat, he gets as close as anyone can without, but my bet he is fooling around since day one. It is time to kick this dog out.
2007-01-08 23:38:21 · answer #7 · answered by A friend of Bill W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you are asking means you already know the answer
2007-01-08 23:35:38 · answer #8 · answered by ragincajun1957 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋