I met this girl on myspace and we've been talking on AIM messenger for about a week now. We have a LOT, and I mean, a LOT in common, same age, same phone, and everything, and we seem to enjoy talking to each other very much. On like the 3rd/4th day of talking on AIM (some very long conversations I might add), this past week, I asked if she would like to exchange phone #s and she said she thought it was too soon to do that just yet, I apologized, and she said it was ok. Things have been going fine since then.
I've met women from online before and when I get to the phone # transition phase, I usually have no problem. I think it's important to make this transition otherwise you'll be stuck on the computer and that's very limiting, you can't hear how the person sound. Sticking to the phone for too long could be dangerous as well, cuz there's many things you can't do over the phone (like go out to places and share fun experiences together, see things and other people together, etc.)
So I'm wondering what I should do now in terms of getting to the talking on phone phase. I don't want this to spiral into "online repitiveness/boredom". Should I just wait for her to bring it up again or should I wait like another week and ask about it? I'm not sure how I should go about this, it's been 7 days and we seem to know a lot about one another via AIM already, I don't want to lose this girl, I really like her.
2007-01-03
07:32:20
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