..I love him like hell...but recently he started complaining about my body..I'm really skinny,...and he even CHEATED on me...and described the ther girl's body to me.....I told him to LEAVE me immediately...but he wont let me go....i'm sick of him now eventhough i still love him....he says he loves me but can't accept my body which is not acceptable to me...I stopped contacting him...for a while...Then last month he called me again to know howz it goin'...i told him I found a new guy (just a lie)...and he was so angy and he hang up the phone....then on christmas eve he called me again and talked like nothing happened...what's wrong with him?..and me?
2007-01-03 07:37:35 · 38 answers · asked by >>>♥<<< 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't love him like hell if you don't love yourself like hell first. Leave him girlfriend and go love yourself for who you are! small boobs or not!
2007-01-03 07:41:59 · answer #1 · answered by melissa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, if you had big ones you'd be hating those.You can never look nice in tank tops or dresses.I'm always having to try to fit them into things.I'd love to have a smaller chest!It seems like we always want what we don't have.Love your boobs and if you are not too young, then you can show him when you are feeling ready to.Maybe you should start trying to gain some weight because you sound way too skinny.I'm gonna tell you that at the height of 5ft you should be 100lbs and for every foot after that you add 5lbs, so thats what weight you should be.Just a litle info to help you build some confidence.Only do this when you are ready ,so you don't regret it,don't be rushed into it.If he loves you he will let you wait and love your boobs too:)Good luck:)
2016-05-22 23:28:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you except the fact you let this guy bring you down. Cut him off all together as hard as it may be. You will still love him but time will help with that. Your body is perfect in every way shape and form.. I don't understand what gives a guy the right to degrade a woman because she not Cover model or pin up poster perfect whatever the the hell that may be. Love you for who YOU are and what god gave you. I feel having smaller breast are wonderful I can wear really low cut shirts and it looks so hot. Go out there and get a REAL man please. Cause honey this guy has got some major issues and its not love that he feels for you.. Good luck and hold you head up high YOU are BEAUTIFUL !
2007-01-03 07:48:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
from a guys point of view, iy seems like a case of the grass is greener on the other side. I think he realises it isnt now and possibly wants you back because he knows he made a mistake. Then again ( sorry to say this i dont mean any offence) he may not be getting it anywhere else. Last thing I will say though, be careful if your taking him back, he has cheated on you once, he is likely therefor to do it again. Be proud of your body, one guys opinion is not the be all and end all, there is someone out there who will love you for being you.
2007-01-03 07:45:25 · answer #4 · answered by Midnight 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Smaller boobs are a blessing. There's less area to check for lumps, you can look at your babies faces while they are feeding, and there's less likelihood of suffocation during intercourse, not to mention that large boobs tie to higher levels of weight gain and more severe back pain in later life.
Now, as for your ex, which is what he should be. He wasn't that into you - he was into the other girl's body. When she wouldn't play, he came back to yours. You don't deserve a guy who treats you as his second choice.
He deserves to make the mistake of dumping you and running off into the boobs of the next cup-size-up, and repeating the process over and over until he finds that he's never really had intimacy in his life.
You deserve to be spared his boorish immaturity. Take it as a blessing. And don't go out with a guy who can't maintain eye contact - you deserve far better.
2007-01-03 07:44:21 · answer #5 · answered by Veritatum17 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look nothing is wrong with you forget him girl, your fine and this other guy thinks so and he loves your body. The most impoant thing to do is love yourself and your body . What wrong with him is that he shouldn't have been dissing you are cheating on and i guess now i realized that. What you do is that you tell him to take a hike and go away cause if he can't appreate you boobs are your body then he don't appreate you.
2007-01-03 07:43:23 · answer #6 · answered by nicole j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he trully loves you he will respect and love everything about you, that includes your physical appearances. But to tell you the truth it really doesn't matter if you have a big or small boobs. what is important here is that you both love each other. But to look on your limititaion of ahaving a small boobs and comparing it to others i really don't think it sounds good. Give him some more time to accept everything about you. But do talk to him in a while and tell him the truth about what you felt in that way he will know whats in your heart for him to think.
2007-01-03 07:47:36 · answer #7 · answered by KRISTOFFER D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy is a pig. first off if hes going to cheat on you then DESCRIBE the girl he deserves to be hurt. second.. find a guy that loves you AND youre body. you shouldnt have to pack on the pounds for a guy, and it wrong of him to try and make you feel bad about yourself for your apperance. nothing is wrong with you, you probably see the good times and thats not bad. just dont keep running into his open arms... and if it comes down to it... block his phone number so he cant call you. or get caller id so that when he does call you can avoid him.
2007-01-03 07:42:52 · answer #8 · answered by Morgan 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you really need to ask us? I think you know the answer to this yourself. Do you want a man that loves everything about you but your body? Are you willing to change your body for that? What about 5 years from now? 20? Your body will change significantly over time. If someone loves you, they love YOU. Body is just the package you come wrapped in. Would he love you if you became disfigured? You need to ask yourself if you are willing to settle for a man that does not love you unconditionally.
2007-01-03 07:43:40 · answer #9 · answered by Lou 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the answer: just love your body: make it appear, dont complain about default you think you have. self confidence is the most beauteous quality a woman can have. make him turn crazy, YOU are the leader of the relation. but this complexity seem to be a friendship for benefit... he wants you as last wheel: alone? he calls you, found a gal he liked, well youvanished... tell him "i have a pretendant: he loves me truly. iam about to conclude: would you struggle for me? u would i'll stay with you. u woudn't: au revoir!!!"
2007-01-03 07:45:44 · answer #10 · answered by La carotte sacrée 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wrong with you? Your still talking to him.
Wrong with him? He's a superficial asshole. he's using your body as an excuse for his bad behavior. It has nothing to do with your body!
Just quit talking to him and concentrate on you. Be happy if your healthy dont fall into the traps of body image by comparison to the "playboy bunny" type
2007-01-03 07:42:04 · answer #11 · answered by troys_wifey2003 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋