Been talking to girl online for a week -- When to ask for phone number?

Question

I met this girl on myspace and we've been talking on AIM messenger for about a week now. We have a LOT, and I mean, a LOT in common, same age, same phone, and everything, and we seem to enjoy talking to each other very much. On like the 3rd/4th day of talking on AIM (some very long conversations I might add), this past week, I asked if she would like to exchange phone #s and she said she thought it was too soon to do that just yet, I apologized, and she said it was ok. Things have been going fine since then.

I've met women from online before and when I get to the phone # transition phase, I usually have no problem. I think it's important to make this transition otherwise you'll be stuck on the computer and that's very limiting, you can't hear how the person sound. Sticking to the phone for too long could be dangerous as well, cuz there's many things you can't do over the phone (like go out to places and share fun experiences together, see things and other people together, etc.)

So I'm wondering what I should do now in terms of getting to the talking on phone phase. I don't want this to spiral into "online repitiveness/boredom". Should I just wait for her to bring it up again or should I wait like another week and ask about it? I'm not sure how I should go about this, it's been 7 days and we seem to know a lot about one another via AIM already, I don't want to lose this girl, I really like her.

Answer 1

make her feel safer, give her your phone number, if she calls she will probably give you her number than, if not she won't call anyway

Answer 2

well, the same thing happened to me. I mean this guy I've been talking to asked me for my number. So I'll answer this from my point of view. I think she may be worried, and I mean this as in trust. I know that I didn't want someone I had never met to have my number because it freaked me out. I told him that and he didn't push me for it or anything. You never know who you meet on the internet and I wanted to be safe, but he assured me of the kind of person he was so I didn't think it was danger anymore. If I were you I would just wait and not push her for it. Just give her time and assure her that you have good intentions and nothing that might make her uncomfortable. Good Luck!

Answer 3

Just ask her for her home phone number so you can ask her out sometime.

Better than wasting all this time you are wasting:) No matter how it turns out, think of all the time and worry you have saved:)

Answer 4

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