she alway talks and tryed 3 time and she really wants to dye
2007-01-03 07:32:33 · 5 answers · asked by Lovely cryz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Do u know why she wants to die? There should be something which is bothering her...if u call her ur friend , u must help her.
And if she thinks of u as her friend , then she will listen to u.
But dont let a life go destroyed like that just becoz of some stupitidy.
U must talk to her privately and ask her why she wants to die.
If u find that her problem cannot be solved very easily and needs medical help, u go to a pychiatrist and talk abt ur friend to him/her. But dont let ur friend know abt it. Then u ask the doc to take some time out and come with u to secretly visit ur friend somewhere out and try solving it. Im sure a true doc will come.
But if its something u think u can help her with , then talk to her frankly wat u think abt her at that very moment. Show her or tell something , something which will make her realise that she deserves to live. Make her realise that dieing is not a solution and that there r billions of pple in this world who is dieing to live due to starvation, aids, etc and there life maynot at all be compared to ur friends life.
If u think she has understanding parents , then do inform them but if they r not, then pls , this is not the right time as her parents might become overprotective and ur friend might do anything to kill herself very quick.
Do not panic . Think calmly and be open. Talk heart to heart. Hold her hand and rub it and give her hug and make her feel shes of worth and can make a difference on this earth.
Best of Luck buddy!!!
2007-01-03 08:07:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there's really anything you can do.
There's a chance she's not really serious, and if she gets the attention she's craving through these actions, it will only feed a deeper problem. As well as ensure there will be future attempts.
Assuming she is serious, she needs professional help. The chances of saying something to a suicidal person that will set them off and make things worse are too big. She should be in an environment where she can't hurt herself.
Chances are either way, there are some serious issues that are out of her league. More than likely out of yours as well. The best thing that you can do is talk to her family and try to get her into some sort of treatment.
2007-01-03 15:53:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey try to tell her she is a good person she has a lot to live for and mabye try to get here some help with a councellor.. if she will accept it... mabye your friend has depression and doesn't know it tell her to ask her doctor for a depression pill called effexor my husband takes it and it really helps him stay happy most of the time
2007-01-03 22:19:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a Bible and show her John 3:16. this means that God loved the world so much that he gave His only son for anyone who will accept him. he died the worst punishment imaginable, death on a cross, so that when we die we can be with Him or go to hell. hell is a place over 1000 times worse than this world. you can't escape hell by killing yourself. it's dark smells like burning sulfur (sulfur dioxide is poisonous).
2007-01-03 16:39:14 · answer #4 · answered by yoyosafreak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her parents and tell them, or go to a school counselor. they can get her the help she needs. Then all u can do is be there for her.
2007-01-03 16:09:45 · answer #5 · answered by poohbear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋