Family & Relationships - 3 January 2007

2007-01-03 17:44:40 · 21 answers · asked by Chuck Dhue 4 in Weddings

me and my ex got into an actual fistfight before (ok 90% of it was my fault but he made me mad) i told him to leave and he went out with his friends. i can't afford (i have a nice place and he pays part of the mortgage) to force him to move out but i'm really starting to hate him. then the police came. so i had to tell them nothing was wrong (he's out on bail and i don't want him sent back, deep down inside i still love him) whats your story.

2007-01-03 17:44:18 · 5 answers · asked by anonymous 6 in Singles & Dating

cam to cam with guys to gain confidence?

2007-01-03 17:44:15 · 12 answers · asked by ♥♥♫ 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 17:43:54 · 16 answers · asked by sriram m 1 in Weddings

My ex and I broke up on November 12th, which of course is horrible timing with the holidays being right around the corner! Anyway, this breakup has been very hard on me because he and I were planning to get engaged over the holidays. We were only together for 6 months but that was long enough for us to fall in love and believe we were soulmates. But towards the end, we fought a lot and several red flags kept showing up, so when we broke up it was mutual, and amicable. Two weeks after we broke up I called him and the conversation went ok, and he wasn't opposed to the idea of being friends when I asked him. When I was about to hang up, I asked when he wanted to talk again, and he said a week later. So I called him a week later but he never called me back. I have since called and emailed him several times (not every day but about once a week) and he hasn't picked up the phone or returned my messages even once.

2007-01-03 17:43:17 · 19 answers · asked by Mysti1000 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 17:42:24 · 7 answers · asked by wildhart 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my girl friend broke up with me because I called her saying this isn't going to workout if she doesn't call me wich she never does, and she needs to stop hanging around guys more than she does with me, but I still love her and I havnt told her that, she thinks she isn't ready for a relationship and I want her back but I've already called like a wuss trying to work things out but the next day I told her I understand and lets be friends, someone tell me how to get her back. I don't understand why she ended it.

2007-01-03 17:42:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this girl that I have known for a while now. She moved across the state to get away from her boyfriend, and she claims she wasnt "happy" with him. As time progressed we both started to like eachother and stuff happened between us. She tells me right to my face that she likes me but she is in "love" with her ex still. Things like "I want you AND him" and "I like you but I am in love him..I wish I could just keep you around on the side" come up in our conversations. We tried the friends with benefits thing but it didnt seem to work out with her, she always felt guilty? Yet within the next few days we are back doing stuff again. Almost all my friends are saying get out but I have no one else that i'm interested in? Is there still hope...should I just take things as they come? or back out before I get hurt?

2007-01-03 17:42:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a boyfriends says "you have givin up on me when you said you wouldnt" or "why have you givin up on us?"

2007-01-03 17:41:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

happen to visit a matrimonial websites and took a liking to a particular girl fully knowing that we have some common factors and lots of different issues. Thought long over it and then sent her an email hoping for some sort of a response. But the girl simply didn’t reply and i know for sure that she’s seen my message. Now I know that its her prerogative not to and she may well reject me … BUT it really hurts in my heart…I just been mopping over it for the past 2 weeks and wats worse ….I can’t seem to get over it…help !! (Pl save me the smart alec comments bcoz it would only aggravate the whole thing)

2007-01-03 17:41:00 · 3 answers · asked by Cheshirecat 1 in Singles & Dating

Well I'm trying to become friends with my ex bf and he said he's mad cuz I lied to him about another girl when he asked her out and I told him that she said no. Honestly I wasn't lying. I was there when he texted her! So he keeps giving me this saying.....Conspirors gain no dignity of my words...what does that mean?

2007-01-03 17:40:59 · 4 answers · asked by brown eyed gurl 2 in Singles & Dating

i am arranged to be married in 2 months, to man my parents pick for me, my parents had party to celebrate.. my fiancee was dance with me and he kissed me with tongue and on my neck and was touching my sides close to my breast. i am very attraced to him but made me feel strange. is it ok for him to do this before we marry? my mother says anything he wants except sex before marriage is ok.

2007-01-03 17:39:34 · 23 answers · asked by ♥♥indian.princess 1 in Weddings

my kids are 16 and 14 they havent seen bio dad in the last year contact has been sporadic and mainly from the ex's girlfriend. they have not had any contact from him in the last month and a half and keep trying to contact him with no return calls or emails (they live about 3 hrs from him) they want to quit trying to stay in touch w/him but i dont know what to do. can i let them quit trying? (yes he is still paying support) i just hate to see them frustrated and i know he doesnt care about them. any suggestions? thanks!

2007-01-03 17:38:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-03 17:37:45 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so its almost my sisters birthday.
and i have no idea what to get her.
as important as big 18 is i wanna get her something special. i only have the budget of $50. please make me a list!

2007-01-03 17:37:33 · 13 answers · asked by alwaysXDsmile 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

It's not on stage or anything, but in theatre the term "love" is thrown around a lot. He's also kissed my hand, but I'm not sure if that's just him being cool or him having actual feelings for me.

2007-01-03 17:37:31 · 11 answers · asked by Firefly 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 17:35:49 · 41 answers · asked by Girl with Kaleidoscope Eyes 4 in Singles & Dating

here a letter to my bf can people tell me wat they think
When you asked me out I was so happy as from the first moment I met u I knew you had to be mine. You still make me happy but at moment when im alone and have time to think I get upset and I want to talk about things with you but I cant as you are busy and when I get to see you I get scared and don’t bring the problems up.
First I going to tell you something that no one else knows but it might explain why I get a bit needy sometimes ive had some bad experiances with men ive been mentally abused, cheated on, used and ive even been forced into sexual acts but I don’t want to talk about them as they my past and I want them to stay there but this is why I become needy sometimes as I feel safe when your around me.
The next is I have some question and possible solutions to your problems As I have pointed out before you seem distant to me recently I understand it because of work and stuff like that but it leaves me feeling forgottn

2007-01-03 17:35:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My DD is hung up on this guy that is addicted to coke and is a big thief. He recently stole my husband's portable DVD player and won't bring it back or replace it. What's bad about this is that my husband is a disabled vietnam vet and didn't do anything to hurt this guy. He's also stolen from others---mainly women and children and other vulnerable people. The guy is shiftless and lazy....extrememly untrustworthy. Since he's only 21 and I thought he showed some signs of potential I've attempted to try to get along with this guy and to attempt to get him onto the right path. But now I think I'd just like to scratch his eyes out....or worse.. I now think he's nothing more than a reprobate and would like to see my daughter free of him. They have a baby, which complicates matters. Any ideas? I've considered getting a restraining order/order of protection to keep him away from us.... Should I go that direction? I wish my DD had more sense and higher self esteem.

2007-01-03 17:34:42 · 3 answers · asked by Brenda 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-03 17:32:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

(Since he is at college, we chat on the net.) A month ago we were talking, and he told me that he liked me. Even though he had a girlfriend (and I would NEVER go any further than this), I was honest and told him that I had liked him for a long time. His girlfriend has since broken up with him. So, every day he says something nice to me, but.... I can deal with his arrogance and temper, but it hurts. He also always tries to get me to do "things" with him, every day, even though I have already told him "no". And he talks about other girls all of the time, but when I mention a male name, he tells me not to. Sometimes I wish that I had never told him that I liked him. I still like him a lot, but.... We're both single, but I feel stuck. I'm very committed and loyal, but it's like I have a boyfriend with no benefits. When I like one guy, I don't like anyone else. But what if I lose interest, and like another? What would I do or say? Someone will get hurt, but I don't want to hurt him.

2007-01-03 17:32:06 · 26 answers · asked by Drinking from a broken glass.... 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 17:31:42 · 25 answers · asked by Barlow 6 in Singles & Dating

I am so cold. What do i do?

2007-01-03 17:31:00 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK , theres this guy that i really like buuuut there is a big problem him and my best friend are going out they have been going on and off for the past year or more andhe and i went out for a day and heres how it happened he had told me the day before that he loved me and i asked him if he really ment it he said yes because i am really pretty and smart and then my friend found out and she and him started to talk and he said that she had her chance and that it was my turn now they where not going out at the time and when my friend left he asked me out and i just looked at him and he just started screaming yah i got a girlfriend and i was thinking that i didnt evan give him a answer and then my other friend brittany called my best friend and told her that we where going out and the next day he hadnt told my friend the truth about him and what he did so we three wayed him that night and i was quiet and she asked him what really happened and he said that i was a lier so when we finally got him to confess and i want to know how to get him to like me and ask me out without hurting my bff so someone pllllllleeeeaaaassseee HELP !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-03 17:30:34 · 7 answers · asked by Audrey T 1 in Singles & Dating

My brother, Ted, and my best friend, Fred, are becoming close friends. I think that Ted is just trying to show that he can be a better friend to Fred than I can but I am not sure. Fred has been acting a little meaner and being nice to me out of pitty, I think. Should I be mad at anyone? Should I try to become friends with them? What should I do? Any other suggestions are welcomed. Thanks!

2007-01-03 17:29:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years, and have talked about getting married many times. We would be getting married sometime in the next 2 to 3 years. Yet there is still no ring or proposal. In August of last year, while he was away, a friend of mine who was getting married that month asked me to go with her to pick up some last minute items at the bridal shop. I went with her, and ended up trying on dresses. I found one I liked, and went ahead and bought it. Have I jinxed my wedding?

2007-01-03 17:29:38 · 25 answers · asked by gidget2523 1 in Weddings

1. My best friend has been married for 11 years and faithful the whole time.
2. They have a child who's 8.
3. She's not employed. He works and just bought her a beautiful home less than 2 months ago.
4. 6 weeks ago she ran into an old friend who offered her pot. She accepted and ended up sleeping with the guy.
5. She won't stop seeing guy #2.
6. She told her husband she wants out because they are not friends.
7. Husband found phone bill with #2's number and called him.
8. She has been out overnight a couple of times and telling her husband she needs space.

She's coming over tomorrow to give me updates and pick up mail that she's having sent here. I am NOT COOL with any of this. My thinking is that she's being too selfish and pot is clouding her judgement. I'm worried that if this does end in divorce she will have nothing not even her child because she can't prove that she can support him.
I'm not good with confrontation.
Help & put words in my mouth!

2007-01-03 17:28:51 · 19 answers · asked by allisoneast 4 in Marriage & Divorce

For the past 11 months, I have been in an amazing relationship with a wonderful guy. We changed eachother for the better, for one, I had gotten out of a rough patch just before we got together, and he brought back my smile. We were in love, from the beginning, but our first kiss really set it off for both of us. But today he decided that it was time for him to move on. He loved me at one point but for some reason he became unsure of his feelings for me (and I won't lie, this has been the third time in the last 2-3 months he has broken up with me because of this feeling). I've taken him back both times before because the way I feel about him. The love I have for him, comes not only from my mind, heart, and body, but from the depth of my soul. The last 2 times this has happened he came back to me with an apology and asking whole-heartedly if I would take him back.... I told him already that I wouldn't do that again, not this time. How do I face him (we see eachother everyday)? God bless

2007-01-03 17:28:25 · 4 answers · asked by Girl 4 God 3 in Singles & Dating

thers this girl and when i walk in the halls shes lookin at me striaght in my eyes .. i know she likes me.. but how do i approach her if shes walking fast in oppiste directions ( i only see her in the halls once in a while)

2007-01-03 17:28:06 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf and I have been together for 2 years but we have always been near each other. This fall I went to college which is an hour and a half away and it's been more stressful than ever. Any advice?

2007-01-03 17:27:33 · 11 answers · asked by Golfr 2 in Singles & Dating