my girl friend broke up with me because I called her saying this isn't going to workout if she doesn't call me wich she never does, and she needs to stop hanging around guys more than she does with me, but I still love her and I havnt told her that, she thinks she isn't ready for a relationship and I want her back but I've already called like a wuss trying to work things out but the next day I told her I understand and lets be friends, someone tell me how to get her back. I don't understand why she ended it.
2007-01-03 17:42:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Once a girl loses interest in you, you are down for the count. Don't beg, she ain't coming back no matter how much you do. Plus, it makes her even more sure of breaking up with you. You also don't want to be friends, because that'll just get your hopes up.
The best way to get her back is to move on. She may realize what she lost. But personally I still would not get back with her.
2007-01-03 17:46:26 · answer #1 · answered by Mookie22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is sick and tired of your bullshit and immature behavior. You are pressuring her too much a given her so much headach with new policies. You cant ask or command unless you know her really well. You are abusing your right as the boyfriend. I think you should wait coupld days and let her miss you. After 4 days, you need to bring flowers, appologize and be honest. Tell her that you love for her and you really need to know if she has the same feelings for u too. Perhaps she is ok with your decision because she doesnt love u the way u do.
sad but true.
2007-01-04 01:46:42 · answer #2 · answered by peace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she didn't end it! YOU called her, nut. you are a wuss and don't deserve a girlfriend. and if she's not ready for a relationship anyways, then the best thing you can do is give her space, because she has realized guys are useless and could spend her time better elsewhere.
2007-01-04 01:49:10 · answer #3 · answered by Naomi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didn't you tell her how you feel earlier on? that one sentence might really help you salvage the relationship do you know that? not wanting to reveal how you feel and bottling it up isn't gonna work and now you've lost her..you want her back..think about it very carefully..is getting back with her really what you want?can you stand her not calling you or being around guys more than she is with you? if you can't..then i suggest you guys remain as friends..give her time and breathing space..she might feel that you're being a little over possessive and insecure about yourself..
think through it!
good luck =)
2007-01-04 01:47:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she aint ready for a relationship then move on. I heard if you let some one go and they come back then yal are ment to be together. So if you told her just be friends and you understand, if she comes back then its worth it.If not then move on pimpin!
2007-01-04 01:46:57 · answer #5 · answered by yummy..... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her time to cool down 1st. then call her after a week or so. She would miss you by then. If not? Just give up.
2007-01-04 01:49:49 · answer #6 · answered by ♥♥Pro♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, look around there are still alot of women waiting for there true love. ow yeah girls love it when men chase after them coz it rarely happen. don't pick up the trash you once throw
2007-01-04 01:49:21 · answer #7 · answered by frozenthunder 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move On.
Its Not like She has the Last Vagina on Earth.
2007-01-04 01:44:11 · answer #8 · answered by RR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her go if she broke up with you than shes just no that into you anymore dont anoyy her by trying to get her back!!
2007-01-04 01:47:23 · answer #9 · answered by baiinsanity ™ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let her go. it's not worth it, and you can move on to get to know yourself better and find other folks to hang out with.
2007-01-04 01:49:23 · answer #10 · answered by 123456 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋