here a letter to my bf can people tell me wat they think
When you asked me out I was so happy as from the first moment I met u I knew you had to be mine. You still make me happy but at moment when im alone and have time to think I get upset and I want to talk about things with you but I cant as you are busy and when I get to see you I get scared and don’t bring the problems up.
First I going to tell you something that no one else knows but it might explain why I get a bit needy sometimes ive had some bad experiances with men ive been mentally abused, cheated on, used and ive even been forced into sexual acts but I don’t want to talk about them as they my past and I want them to stay there but this is why I become needy sometimes as I feel safe when your around me.
The next is I have some question and possible solutions to your problems As I have pointed out before you seem distant to me recently I understand it because of work and stuff like that but it leaves me feeling forgottn
2007-01-03 17:35:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
have a solution to this how about we have one time a week where we phone each other e.g. Saturday morning before we both have work or Tuesday afternoons when I have frees and we have a minimum time of 10 minutes where we just talk.
I would love to see you move often but I understand with work it will be hard but I have a idea on Tuesday I have frees in the afternoons and Im thinking maybe I can come and meet you after work at 2 and we hang even if it only for 30 minutes.
Can I ask though why all a sudden when we do see each other you don’t want to meet in town or outside my work anymore?
Can I also ask what is your relationship with 11111 and why do you let her get away with invading my privacy so much because I feel violated that she trying to split us up as using my personal thoughts and feelings to attempt to do it.
Now on to the harder stuff
2007-01-03 17:36:11 · update #1
You say you can’t dump 22222 because you need a place to stay is there a reason that stopping you going back to your mums?
Have you got mates or can you stay at your brothers?
Do you really intend on dumping 22222 or do you just like the whole having 2 girlfriends thing?
Have you talk to 22222 mum and explained to her that you fear you feelings for 22222 are fading but are scared to do anything in fear of being kicked out the house and you don’t want to hurt 22222 by leading her along for too long as she might be understanding and let you stay and make sure you promise to be 22222 best mate and be for her when she needs you but not as a boyfriend.
When you said you loved me did you really mean it? I did when I said it to you and you have been the first guy that ive said it to.
I think that is all I need to talk about."
2007-01-03 17:36:35 · update #2
wow that is very deep. Good luck, you know what you are doing and what the inevitable end is.
2007-01-03 17:38:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps you should attempt to ascertain him head to head, ascertain his telephone wasn't stolen. yet speaking right now i imagine is continually extra effective then texting. i'm questioning if he's mad at you for something? Or heard a rumor? He might want to be with somebody else, there is a good number of opportunities , yet to sparkling ur thoughts you may want to favor to attempt to search for suggestion from with him right now, if it truly is not achievable, perhaps try calling a chum to ascertain whats happening.
2016-12-01 19:31:17 · answer #2 · answered by gagliano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would send it, get his reply, and repost it so we can give you accurate advice instead of assuming what his idea of love is. If he said he loves you and he's sleeping with everyone, then he's not talking about your heart.
2007-01-03 17:45:45 · answer #3 · answered by lostinmontana406 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to come off as an ****ole, but you need to get a life. You wrote all of this on the web for a response? Get a hobby.
2007-01-03 17:38:15 · answer #4 · answered by Andy 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sounds like you think you need him in your life. He seems like a looser. Work on loving yourself before you can find someone who can truly love you.
2007-01-03 17:40:30 · answer #5 · answered by snuggler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is good I hope that he gets the point and understands you.
2007-01-03 17:39:54 · answer #6 · answered by Mac H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too long, sorry hun. summarize! and really look into your grammar... i see one really really long sentence and I got reallllly confused!
2007-01-03 17:38:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
huh
2007-01-03 17:40:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋