There is this girl that I have known for a while now. She moved across the state to get away from her boyfriend, and she claims she wasnt "happy" with him. As time progressed we both started to like eachother and stuff happened between us. She tells me right to my face that she likes me but she is in "love" with her ex still. Things like "I want you AND him" and "I like you but I am in love him..I wish I could just keep you around on the side" come up in our conversations. We tried the friends with benefits thing but it didnt seem to work out with her, she always felt guilty? Yet within the next few days we are back doing stuff again. Almost all my friends are saying get out but I have no one else that i'm interested in? Is there still hope...should I just take things as they come? or back out before I get hurt?
2007-01-03 17:42:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listen to your friends.
I say run away from this madness as fast as you can.
Nothing good will come of this ...
2007-01-03 17:45:23 · answer #1 · answered by YaYa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you need to get out. In the end you will only get your heart broken! She has already told you that she loves someone else, she's made that plain and clear. She obviously can't make up her mind of who she wants to be with. Just leave and look for another girl who is only into you! Remember never settle for second best! Good luck.
2007-01-04 01:47:49 · answer #2 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT REALLY SOUND LIKE YOU NEED TO MOVE ON, SHE PLAYING GAMES WITH YOU. AND YOU DESERVE MUCH
MORE THEN SOME GIRL THAT DOES NOT KNOW WHAT
SHE WANT. GET OUT BEFORE YOU GET SO EMOTIONAL
THAT YOU CANT. THE LONGER YOU STAY THE HARDER
IT WILL GET. TIME TO CUT HER LOOSE ONCE AND FOR
ALL.
2007-01-04 01:47:10 · answer #3 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out now.
2007-01-04 01:44:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesnt know what she wants so obviously shes immature, your best bet is to get out even tho i know, and trust me i know, u probably dont want to
2007-01-04 01:46:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why r u being a doormat to her? Your a fool
2007-01-04 01:44:31 · answer #6 · answered by suzieqq g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa..............jeeves............sounds like there's alot of hurtin coming your way if u stay with her.....................id suck it up and go elsewhere.
2007-01-04 01:45:10 · answer #7 · answered by blkhawk51 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋