OK , theres this guy that i really like buuuut there is a big problem him and my best friend are going out they have been going on and off for the past year or more andhe and i went out for a day and heres how it happened he had told me the day before that he loved me and i asked him if he really ment it he said yes because i am really pretty and smart and then my friend found out and she and him started to talk and he said that she had her chance and that it was my turn now they where not going out at the time and when my friend left he asked me out and i just looked at him and he just started screaming yah i got a girlfriend and i was thinking that i didnt evan give him a answer and then my other friend brittany called my best friend and told her that we where going out and the next day he hadnt told my friend the truth about him and what he did so we three wayed him that night and i was quiet and she asked him what really happened and he said that i was a lier so when we finally got him to confess and i want to know how to get him to like me and ask me out without hurting my bff so someone pllllllleeeeaaaassseee HELP !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-03 17:30:34 · 7 answers · asked by Audrey T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should keep off from this guy, he is not worth your effort.He clearly does not respect you or your friend...you deserve more than that...remember when your heart is broken you still need your best friends shoulder to cry on...so you and your friend should move on,leave the guy alone.
2007-01-03 17:47:35 · answer #1 · answered by lem 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) You are at least in 3rd grade, please remember how to write using proper spelling and grammar when you ask a question, thank you. No one can understand you question otherwise.
2) You are young if this seems tough, you have no idea! Trust me when you get older you will laugh at this moment. But your emotions are valid, so lets continue.
3) Friends are more important than a boyfriend at this point in your life. Don't mess with any boy that your friend are/have dated.
4) He is not your boyfriend in an adult sense, as a young person you have flexibility to end this relationship and get over it quite quickly. Neither his or your emotions are worth making your friends angry or sad, or torturing yourself with this problem.
You have a long life and many many dates ahead of you, don't worry about this, you'll get over it and he'll get over it. Maybe when you are in High School you two will go on an "adult" date or something.
Good Luck
2007-01-03 17:47:09 · answer #2 · answered by PKs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was SO confusing but here's what I got....So this guy you like is dating your best friend, but you dated him becuz he just said yah I got a gf without you answering? Ok, I dont get any of it!
2007-01-03 17:34:24 · answer #3 · answered by brown eyed gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heeey how about some comas or periods? btw reading this gave me a headache. heres my advice choose one of them. it seems you cannot have both of them w/o hurting the other one. I had a friend w/ similar problem and she choosed her best friend bcuz she realized she can't live without her. It depends on what your looking for i guess
2007-01-03 17:43:24 · answer #4 · answered by Clumsy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off sounds like you are very young. Second... You NEVER date a friend’s boyfriend or their ex-boyfriend. Third...he isn't worth having by any lady. Good luck with your future. .
2007-01-03 17:36:19 · answer #5 · answered by snuggler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should probably talk it over with your best friend first.
2007-01-03 17:38:49 · answer #6 · answered by Weston 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confUSingg.
sounds like this guy doesnt know what he wants
u girls need to get over him.
2007-01-03 17:38:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋