For the past 11 months, I have been in an amazing relationship with a wonderful guy. We changed eachother for the better, for one, I had gotten out of a rough patch just before we got together, and he brought back my smile. We were in love, from the beginning, but our first kiss really set it off for both of us. But today he decided that it was time for him to move on. He loved me at one point but for some reason he became unsure of his feelings for me (and I won't lie, this has been the third time in the last 2-3 months he has broken up with me because of this feeling). I've taken him back both times before because the way I feel about him. The love I have for him, comes not only from my mind, heart, and body, but from the depth of my soul. The last 2 times this has happened he came back to me with an apology and asking whole-heartedly if I would take him back.... I told him already that I wouldn't do that again, not this time. How do I face him (we see eachother everyday)? God bless
2007-01-03 17:28:25 · 4 answers · asked by Girl 4 God 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Reminds me of something that I went through a few years ago and the sad thing is, I still love him and I always will. I believe that everyone has one person that they will love like no other. But sadly we didn't get together. Time does heal the wound but the scar remains.
U need to decide if you will put up your heart to be broken by the same guy a third time. A relationship takes two people longing for each other in order for it to be full-filling.
U know and trust God. He's the best at these things. Have a chat with the Holy Spirit and ask Him what to do. You'll be amazed with the results.
May the Lord be with you too.
2007-01-04 01:40:27 · answer #1 · answered by Nats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just face him.
It's the only thing you CAN do.
If you take him back for the third time, he's going to keep breaking up with you whenever the mood strikes, knowing full well you'll take him back as soon as he apologizes.
2007-01-04 01:33:30 · answer #2 · answered by lyoskowitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you already told him you won't take him back, and he still wants to break up, then don't worry about it. Talk to him, don't sever your connection with him necessarily, but don't do anything that would make him think that you would take him back either.
And act normal around him. Best of luck to you!
2007-01-04 01:36:43 · answer #3 · answered by Weston 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU KEEP YOUR HEAD UP AND GO FROM THERE, YOU
HAVE A RIGHT TO FEEL AS YOU DO, THIS BACK AND FORTH
NONSENSE IS CRAZY, TIME TO LET IT GO AND MOVE ON
IF HE HAS A PROBLEM WHEN YOU SEE EACH OTHER THEN
IT HIS PROBLEM NOT YOURS. GOOD LUCK. GOD BLESS
YOU AS WELL.
2007-01-04 01:35:35 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋