Family & Relationships - 28 December 2006

Ok... this guy at my skool iz like really hot!! And verry popular, and
hiz friendz alwayz tell me tht he really likes me! He iz in my class and when hez near me, he alwayz talkz to me and he alwayz smilez and stares at me in class, i also received this note his friendz gave me, and it said quote, "i wanna makeout with you!!" "You are really hot, and i LOVE UUUU!!!!" Wat shud i do?

2006-12-28 10:31:53 · 23 answers · asked by ~*2NE1*~ 1 in Singles & Dating

I"ve been friends with a particular person for over 20 years. During the last few years, she has become very negative and somewhat jealous of others. An example being, I recently moved into a new apt. & was proud of my decorating. She looked around and said "it's awfully bright in here". If I've done some photo work, she'll look very closely & pick out something very minor to bring to my attention. A few days ago, I mentioned going to my cousin's for a holiday. Her face dropped like a stone & she said "oh, that", then proceeded to remind me of a problem from last year. 3 yrs. ago she opted to take a course benefitting her employment & cancelled our vacation plans. I went on vacation with another friend. When she learned of this, she became very distant toward me and accused me of going off with another friend so fast. I'm at the point where I don't want to share things with her. Talking to her won't do any good. She becomes very defensive. What should I do?

2006-12-28 10:31:01 · 7 answers · asked by tweetysvester2007 1 in Friends

okay so im 14 and ive been with this kid for 3 years now, i love him very much .. people tell me im to young to love but this feeling i have is love, i just know it. i want to get over him so baddly, he treats me like an angel, but he always breaks up wiht me becuase hes so insecure about himself. whenever we break up he usually finds another girl and immediately supposedly likes her, but always tells me he loves me still and the feelings he has for me will never change. and hes known to be a jerk in my school, and everyone that knows him sees that when hes with me, hes just a totally different person (in a good way). and sometimes hell get mad becuase he thinks i screw up the relationships he trys to get, but its relaly just him. but when i try to move on to other guys, he pulls me rihgt back in ! .. what should i do ?

2006-12-28 10:30:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married 10 yrs, I am 35. For the last 3 years I feel I have been through hell. For much of the last year my husband has been depressed so much so he often can not get out of bed.
For the last 3 years we have been having ivf and a miscarriage.
I spend a lots of of time with his family but he spends vitually none with mine.
At christmas we spent Xmas eve and day with his and we were supposed to go to mine at 5pm boxing day. Despite my pleas he drank far too much on xmas day and was too hungover to go. In my frustration(also my mum is seriously ill) i said some nasty things on the phone to him. I told him he always let me down and that i was glad i did not have kids with him as he was so unreliable. He hung up on me and has not spoke to me since. He is still at his mums and refuses to come on the phone to me.
I feel i just cannot cope with him anymore, i have spent the last 3 days in tears. But if i leave him i give up my chance of ever having a family. What do I do?

2006-12-28 10:30:42 · 1 answers · asked by joanne p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend had made a prank and I want to get back on them.

2006-12-28 10:30:28 · 12 answers · asked by Miss Beauty 1 in Friends

okay so im 14 and ive been with this kid for 3 years now, i love him very much .. people tell me im to young to love but this feeling i have is love, i just know it. i want to get over him so baddly, he treats me like an angel, but he always breaks up wiht me becuase hes so insecure about himself. whenever we break up he usually finds another girl and immediately supposedly likes her, but always tells me he loves me still and the feelings he has for me will never change. and hes known to be a jerk in my school, and everyone that knows him sees that when hes with me, hes just a totally different person (in a good way). and sometimes hell get mad becuase he thinks i screw up the relationships he trys to get, but its relaly just him. but when i try to move on to other guys, he pulls me rihgt back in ! .. what should i do ?

2006-12-28 10:29:58 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to finish my nursing which is 2 more years. However, I have a 1 yr. old and a 3 yr. old at home that I leave in daycare while I go to school. I don't want to be selfish but since I am not working and only go to school, my husband is not making it financially to support our household of 7. Should I put school on hold and find a job to help him? Should I hang in there and finish 2 more yrs? My marriage is falling apart because I can't seem to focus on my priorities although my family comes first. I am afraid of not finishing school once I stop going. I don't want to look back and regret not finishing my degree to raise my family. Right now I need to improve my living situation and I don't know whather to pick work, school, or husband even. Which of the three should I pick? I can only pick one.

2006-12-28 10:29:46 · 34 answers · asked by sandra 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i lkie this guy and he acts like he likes me back but when we are alone he doen't try to do anything physical with me like let me kiss him or vice versa

2006-12-28 10:29:32 · 5 answers · asked by beautiful butterfly 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you want a a guy that kisses upto you all the time, listens to what you say or an actual man, a guy that stands up to you and has the balls to criticise and humor you and be a man?

2006-12-28 10:29:27 · 8 answers · asked by arabontheloose 3 in Singles & Dating

If you can write why you love one more than the other.

2006-12-28 10:28:23 · 21 answers · asked by Ashley 4 in Family

My boyfriend & I moved in about 4 months ago. I was going through a rough time with my family not accepting the fact that I wanted to move in with my boyfriend. I treated my boyfriend very badly...I hit him...cursed at him just plainly mistreated him. Now he is being very nasty with me says that all I do is nag and just plainly mistreats me. How can I get him back I know I made a mistake.

2006-12-28 10:28:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-28 10:28:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok....our 20 yr. old daughter has a real sense of entitlement. She expects us to pay bills she has incurred when she can't pay them. She is unemployed again and seems unwilling to try to find work that she feel is "beneath"her.... what can I do so make her understand that everyone has to pull their own weight, provide their own way...make their own happiness.

2006-12-28 10:26:56 · 13 answers · asked by karen h 3 in Family

some girls at school have been talking about having a vib (vibrator ) party. you bring a vib and all have fun infrount of each other . just wondering

2006-12-28 10:26:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Is it really that bad to have a relationship without his parents knowing?

2006-12-28 10:26:26 · 15 answers · asked by thru_irish_eyes105 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend of three years have been experiencing problems lately. he never wants to talk and all i want to do is talk so we clash. were usually very happy but weve been arguing alot. hes been treating me quite bad, he is nasty now and is also very moody with me. he acts like he is not interested in me and like he doesnt care about the relationship anymore. he never wants to talk about the problems we have. we have split up twice and quite soon after i have got in touch to try and work it out. ages ago i would never do that, he would always do the running but i feel so insecure i cant help myself. im in university and have alot going for me but the relationship is getting me down so it is all i can think about because of what we used to have. i love him and he used to have so much love for me, although im very angry and dont see him as the same person for what hes done.how do you think i should go about this, i want him to realise what he has done and for him to treat me better

2006-12-28 10:25:43 · 22 answers · asked by louise l 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend cheated on me a week after I almost died in his arms. He went out-of-state on a trip and he was extremely intoxicated at the time. It means a lot to me that told me the truth. He feels horrible about it and I believe him. I love him and I want to be able to trust him again, but I'm not sure what to do. Any advice would be very much appretiated.

2006-12-28 10:25:23 · 10 answers · asked by Elizabeth M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

b/c im neither and guys dont talk to me b/c I dont fit their critiria.... are there guys out there that like kinda chubby girls?

2006-12-28 10:25:12 · 11 answers · asked by MT 2 in Singles & Dating

He bought 5 cell phones for his family about 2 yrs ago at the same time I bought my own cell phone. He did not include me in the 5 phones contract he bought for his adult kids and their spouses. I started getting prank calls (10 a day) on my cell phone, so after he renewed his contract, he took a cell phone from his son in law and gave it to me because he said the son in law could not afford it. I have mixed feelings about accepting a cell phone from him. I am not sure why he feels he needs to provide cellular service to his adult kids and pay that enormous bill every month. I was angry at him for not including me in the contract 2 years ago since we had been a couple for 5 yrs. I think adult, married kids should be able to pay for their own phones as I was, but now that he is offering me a phone, I think its free, so why not. Should I accept and do you think he has a motive for this sudden rush of generosity? I doubt it has anything to do with the prank caller I have had.

2006-12-28 10:24:37 · 3 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Singles & Dating

but I just consentrate on today & tommorow....how do you get thro bad times????.....what makes you never give up????....

2006-12-28 10:24:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-28 10:23:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK ME AND MY FINACE HAVE BEEN GOING OUT FOR LIKE A YEAR AND ME AND HER ARE IN A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE I AM IN THE MILITARY SO SHE IS IN FLORIDA AND I AM IN HAWAII. ME AND HER ARE CONSTANTLY FIGHTING BECAUSE SHE SAYS I DONT GIVE HER ENOUGH STUFF THAT SHE WOULD WANT TO HAVE..AND THAT I AM VERY CONTROLLING..WE ALSO HAVE A TRUST ISSUE..BECAUSE WHEN I WAS IN AFGHAN SHE WENT TO GEORGIA WITH SOME FRIEND AND SHE SLEPT WITH U GUYS WHILE SHE WAS DONE THERE FOR LIKE A MONTH. THEN I TOOK A PICTURE WITH A GIRL ON NEW YEARS..SO THATS WHY I DONT TRUST HER AND SHE DONT TRUST ME..WHEN WE ARE TOGETHER WE ARE SO HAPPY..BUT ONCE I COME BACK TO HAWAII ITS STARTS ALL OVER AGAIN. WE ALSO SAY THAT WE ARE GOING TO CHANGE SO THIS RELATIONSHIP CAN BE BETTER..BUT IT NEVER SEEMS TO WORK..SO WHA I WANT TO KNOW IS WHAT SHOULD I DO..PLEASE GIVE ME ADVICE..I DONT WANT TO LEAVE HER CUZ I LOVE HER WITH ALL MY HEART BUT STUFF IS NOT WORKING RIGHT WITH US..

2006-12-28 10:23:33 · 14 answers · asked by ORLANDOBOY1985 1 in Singles & Dating

there is this boy ive known for a while and i quite like him we've been out together in a group and we flirt and that we've recently been texting but how do i no if he rli likes me or if he just wants to be a friend

2006-12-28 10:23:31 · 10 answers · asked by pil 1 in Singles & Dating

just asking!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-28 10:23:29 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well i ve been thinking about this lately and most of my friends say u actually like the person before u love them. wat do u think

2006-12-28 10:23:08 · 11 answers · asked by 9jagurl 2 in Singles & Dating

im being verbally bullied majorly............help?

2006-12-28 10:22:22 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

so heres the deal, i met this guy through some friends, hes real sweet & he likes me ALOT. we have a real good friendship though, talk alot and everything he makes me laugh we have a good time together..so the problem is # 1 i'm not physically attracted too him, i know looks ain't everything, but lets face it, it would effect a relationship! and # 2 i don't think i have the feelings he has for me...i would love too stay friends with him. but he tends to question me, where are u going, who are u with, who were u on the other line with. i'm single for the simple fact that i want freedom after being in a long serious relationship. am i wrong if i tell him too back off a little bit, i don't want to hurt him, & don't want too lose him completely. but i need him too know that i'm not his girl, and have no intentions on it! then the worst part he went spend a ridiculous amount of money on me for x-mas. hes a great guy, but should i keep it real & let him know straight up, its not happening???

2006-12-28 10:21:53 · 21 answers · asked by Erica 1 in Singles & Dating

Its been 5months, why can't I just forget it. I love him but I dont want to. He broke up with me. I thought we would get married, and share a life together. I'm 26, I'm old. I feel like I won't get another chance. I don't understand what happen. I feel so down about it.
Please no smart remarks, I'm really hurting. Im so sad.

2006-12-28 10:21:49 · 11 answers · asked by Crazy Heart 1 in Singles & Dating

Bill her bookie and Bill her probation officer. No seriously, I found out she was having an affair and wanted a divorce. I moved out in October. I am paying for her car, insurance the mortgage. Since she is staying in the house she agreed to pay the utilities. However appearantly she can't do tht however when I went by to pick up some of my stuff a few weeks ago she has a whole new wardrobe and there is a case of wine on the floor. I know this is a stupid question but should I help her out? can anyone think of a reason I should? We have no children together.

2006-12-28 10:20:48 · 32 answers · asked by Johnboy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Please Help

2006-12-28 10:20:30 · 20 answers · asked by NEED HELP FAST 1 in Singles & Dating