Is it really that bad to have a relationship without his parents knowing?
2006-12-28 10:26:26 · 15 answers · asked by thru_irish_eyes105 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends... How old is he?
2006-12-28 10:28:59 · answer #1 · answered by =] -- * 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the boy you like is still listening to his parents, chances are you BOTH are too young to be having boyfriends or girlfriends. Don't disrespect him or his parents by trying to pursue a relationship with him.
You must be young. Go hang out with your girlfriends. Do your homework maybe; read a good book. Honestly, just enjoy being young... I have a good book you should read. It's called The Lonely Bones. Go google it.
Be good.
2006-12-28 18:31:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i say you wait until he's allowed. show him you like him and that you respect his parents by not pressuring him into a relationship. i don't think its that bad to have a relationship without the parents knowing. but ask yourself is it worth it if they find out
2006-12-28 18:31:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Other young people might say it's okay to sneak around, but I think he should stand up and talk to his parents about dating and about you in particular. He should try to convince them that he will keep his priorities straight, meaning his grades and his responsibility towards unwanted pregnancy and STDs. If they still say no, he should ask them to explain their reasoning but also respect their decision once he understands. Sneaking around will only cause problems for him and his family.
2006-12-28 18:32:42 · answer #4 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a person is ready to have a realtionship, usually their parents are not involved, look up "quasi" you two are trying to have a quasi-relationship and grow up too soon.
2006-12-28 18:30:09 · answer #5 · answered by Akshun 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him to tell his parents that you won't do anything that he will not want to do. and you should mean it because he will know what is right and what is wrong and you should know what is right for your relationship and what is wrong for your relationship. his parents also know what is best for thier child.
2006-12-28 18:33:17 · answer #6 · answered by devin c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
will how old are u guys?
if your in your teenage years
I guess he's parents, want him to focus on school first
u guys still have alot of time to go out
2006-12-28 18:30:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and move on. if your still intrested when he's allowed then start having a relationship with him. good luck, happy holidays and have a happy new year.
2006-12-28 18:30:41 · answer #8 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes cuz if his parents find out he will be in alot of trouble.
jus talk to his parents and sweet talk them buy them presents or sumthin
2006-12-28 18:29:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just mess around with him and have fun, but don't take him seriously if he's that much of a mama's boy.
2006-12-28 18:30:10 · answer #10 · answered by sweetie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young people 'Do not know what they don't know'..... think it over. His parents are doing you a favor as much as him.
2006-12-28 18:35:40 · answer #11 · answered by Jim F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋