just asking!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-28 10:23:29 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You can't fix it. Damage has been done, there is no going back.
All you can do is learn from the mistake. If you can do anything to show sincere regret than do it. Other than that, learn from your mistake, find out what it was that led you to make that mistake consciously and sub consciously.
Do what you can to right your wrong, but don't let it hold you back either. Some things you just have to learn to live with. But don't dwell on the past too much as that is a mistake as well. We can't go back and fix things, that is just a fact of life. And it's always easier to say after the fact why didn't I do this or that. All you can do is the best you can at the time based on the circumstances and information you had at the time.
These days there is too many people who judge others and themselves about decisions or actions they made in the past based on information they know now.
2006-12-28 10:29:46 · answer #1 · answered by Proud to be APBT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a bad way to feel. If you can't go back and fix it, then there's nothing left to do but move forward, try to learn from the mistake by not repeating it...and hope whoever you've hurt really will learn to forgive you. (Since you're on the marriage and divorce site, I'm assuming you're talking about a relationship and not a recipe here....)
2006-12-28 18:30:56 · answer #2 · answered by CassandraM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u can't fix it u need to forgive yourself for whatever u did and move forward, if u have hurt someone as a result, by all means make amends, ask for forgiveness if u can from that person unless having contact with them might harm u in some way. if they won't forgive at least u tried, u told them you were sorry, if they can't accept it than theres no more u can do.
2006-12-28 18:33:40 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An old saying " We learn from our mistake(s)" That was the past now we're in the present sweetie forget about no matter how much it has changed you life. Move on and live Happier!
2006-12-28 18:53:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep moving forward and use the mistake as a learning experience.
2006-12-28 18:25:00 · answer #5 · answered by sweetie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In a world where no one else makes mistakes, I would find some rock to crawl under. Fortunately for me, nothing of the sort exists.
"Live and Learn."
2006-12-28 18:26:52 · answer #6 · answered by Finnegan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some regret, try not to make the same mistake again and move on.
2006-12-28 18:27:22 · answer #7 · answered by kicking_back 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly want to reconcile, then find out what it is you have done, why you've done it, and decide if you want to lead a better path than what you are leading now. Never give up. Take care.
2006-12-28 18:40:13 · answer #8 · answered by SillyKimmie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really can't fix it, move on with your lfe and learn from your mistake.
2006-12-28 18:25:33 · answer #9 · answered by Uncle Remus 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask a real question with details or dont waste the space.
2006-12-28 18:30:24 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. JW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋