Family & Relationships - 27 December 2006

i am just curious, i am 33 male and i was approached by an 18 year old. thats weird to me, we would have nothing in common and besides young girls are usually immature and dont know what they want. anyway thanks!

2006-12-27 09:22:32 · 2 answers · asked by Brian 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm wit a 38 yr old guy. He's got two kids wit two different women whom he's paying maintenance for and is in constant contact with them, they're ages are 2 and 4. I told him I want to have a child in 5 yrs when I finish my studies but he said he would be 43 then and that's pushing it. Although he's never told me he loves me, I'm curious as to whether he does love me as he told me he would love a family and would marry the woman who has his next child, or he's using me to have another child?....I'm confused...

2006-12-27 09:22:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I are teachers and we are looking for a cake for our wedding. Any Suggestions? pictures?

2006-12-27 09:22:05 · 5 answers · asked by DJ C 4 in Weddings

2006-12-27 09:22:00 · 5 answers · asked by Concerned Friend 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 09:21:48 · 5 answers · asked by ladybug 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i need to discipline my girlfriend and i guess spanking is the best way. How should i punish this shrew, so that it does not become erotic spanking but discipline.

2006-12-27 09:21:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am very much in love with a guy in Bakers Louisiana. We used to date in school last year he was a senior and i was a sophmore in high after he graduated he moved for work and im stil in Dallas we lost comunication but a year later we started talking again and fell in love . I want to see him so much even more than that i know he feels the same way . But i need something to make it last and keep the fire of intrest . I dont need motherly advice i need to know what guys think and people my age . thanks

2006-12-27 09:21:26 · 9 answers · asked by niecee c 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-27 09:21:21 · 5 answers · asked by Concerned Friend 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a very ill sister she's 13, "mentaly ill ", she acts and thinks like a 2 years old child, her medical life is very long, what i want to say is that we are very close together because she is the only sister that I have, all the time she wants to be near me and she gets upset if I talk with somebody else in her presence, upset means peating everybody around, shouting and destroying everything, when she is calm she's very funny she's just like an angle and she's very sensitive she's always laughing , she keeps saying how much she loves us and her kisses never stops many people suggested to put her in institution but when we look at her and how much we love her we just could'nt especialy Mum she'll never agree, the problem is I'm getting married in few months and I know what will be the result if she comes, what can I do?

2006-12-27 09:21:00 · 5 answers · asked by sahar el2amar 2 in Family

2006-12-27 09:20:02 · 16 answers · asked by Phillip 4 in Singles & Dating

please give me one of the good answer that i can change my life back and focus to the future.

2006-12-27 09:19:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I met this guy almost last 2 yrs. He's kinda sweet and evrything but he's one hell of a player.I really liked him so i tried to get along with him. Then i think i freakd him out somehow.So we didnt talk for about 4/6 months.When we started to talk again to each other, more intimately than ever b4, I started to wonder and doubt whatever was that we had because he flirts everywhere. So anyway, around 2nd week of dec(last yr), he found out that he was ill. He told everyone else, but he didnt tell me anything.A friend of ours told me. around earlier this year,I heard that he's kinda like going out with someone else. Since we were 'unofficial', i didnt say anything to him.But whenever we talk, its like nothing else is happening.Fortunately, the girl confronted me and asked me questions.I gave her straight answers. since then, me and that bloody piece of crap (the guy)didnt talk. i was surprised that he sent me an xmas message. we talked and he said he missed me and crap.

what should i do?

2006-12-27 09:18:48 · 13 answers · asked by Emilie Howard 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 09:18:41 · 10 answers · asked by Bobalong 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Im 19 and my gf is 21 but I told her that Im 23.I really love her and I don't want to lose her and I guess she feels the same.I feel so sad because of this matter but I don't know how to tell her and if I do what will be her reaction.please help if you have some experiences or feelings about it.

2006-12-27 09:18:15 · 23 answers · asked by kiki 1 in Friends

ok this guy i like took my test on Quiz your friends and got them all right. weve known eachother for almost a year and he is the best guy i know. he so great. recently he told my friend that he likes soem1 but wont tell her who . she thinks its me becaz he said to her , u know her , shes your best friend , shes on msn all the time , and shes my best friend . all of which will make since that its me. ok so the test had personal questions that he wouldnt even know the answere to but one question was " if i had to go out with some1 who would it be "and he guessed him which is right . r these signs that he likes me or am i just thinking things?

2006-12-27 09:18:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 26, and manage an apartment complex. One of my tenants is very behind on her rent because her wallet got stolen last month. She is a little younger me, single mom, living paycheck to paycheck. I was going to talk to her about it today but I could not bring fear and sadness to her during the holidays.

My family was a bit too generous with me this season. So I was going to covertly leave a card for her with some cash in it, and sign Santa Clause at the bottom instead of my name, and "Sorry I am late." I don't want anything from her, I just care, and would like to help out.

If you were in her shoes would you be creeped out or offended by this?

2006-12-27 09:17:25 · 11 answers · asked by Ellis26 3 in Singles & Dating

This guy called me three days in a row and we went on dates, romantic, fooled around but didnt sleep together. And the not sleeping together was his choice too! He also however seems like a pretty independent type. He's totally sweet when hes with me, but not sissy, he's very masculine. He seems really honest and will talk about pretty much anything, past girlfriends, family, goals, everything. The thing is, how can I tell if he's interested in a more exclusive relationship? He's like void of emotion or something and its hard to tell how much he actually likes me. Usually when a guy likes me he calls me all the time and wants to hang out like everyday, and while I admit thats smothering, at least I can tell that they like me. This guy works me into his schedule and while I certainly dont mind independence, I'm just trying to get a feel for the motives. A guy wouldnt go on multiple dates with you if he didnt see a potential for something more, right?

2006-12-27 09:16:25 · 8 answers · asked by Stephanie 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 09:15:50 · 7 answers · asked by shath 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm seeing a guy, we're very close. He has two kids to two different women but they're living with their mother's in the states. This guy has never told me he loves me, but he told me the other night that he wants me to have his baby. Which I was shocked to hear, but pleasantly surprised. (Hes not the only man to ask me this). He wants a kid in the next two yrs, but I wanna wait until I finish my studies which will mean he's gonna be 43. I'm curious if he's just using me to have a baby wit him cuz he getting on or if he loves me and really wants ME to be the mother of his kid. PLEASE HELP.......thanks in advance. xx
He told me a while back that if he has another baby, he'll marry that woman, cuz it ain't fair on the child. He pays child maintenance for each of his children and is in constant contact with them, his job in the army means he's stationed over here in the UK so he rarely sees them.

2006-12-27 09:15:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 09:15:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-27 09:14:58 · 4 answers · asked by fishingcanbfun 2 in Family

Been married 3 years. I know it's not along time, but we have two small children and it seems like we have been married forever. I am a stay at home mom, and he is the breadwinner. It wasn't like that in the beginning, but we had some hard times, and I my license has been suspended for the past year and a half (driving without insurance, didn't have the money). Anyways, I am unhappy with myself because I dont amount to what I used to and I feel useless. It obviously has an effect on our marriage because of my own unhappiness. I keep hoping it will change soon when I get my license back, but I wonder if it will ever be the same. I moved away from all of my friends and now I have none. I am scared to work now, and I want to get a job when I get back on my feet. Has anyone ever overcome something like this, and is it brighter on the other side?

2006-12-27 09:14:19 · 13 answers · asked by MiZmeL 4 in Marriage & Divorce

We are still married. Husband took two youngest kids over 5 years ago. Just found them...have them in my custody now for xmas but he wants them back. What can I do? I don't want to put them through the same thing he did 5 years ago. My one year is now 6 years old and she doesn't really know me. She calls my husbands present girlfriend Mommy. So hurt...can he be charged with something? What can I do?

2006-12-27 09:14:08 · 6 answers · asked by SandraF 4 in Family

shes from NJ

2006-12-27 09:14:08 · 4 answers · asked by haz3L 1 in Friends

2006-12-27 09:14:01 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I met this guy on the Dinsey Cruise. I'm 16 (almost 17) and he's 15 (almost 16). He is the sweetest guy ever!! I think I may be in love with him. I know.... how is that possible. I just have a feeling that won't go away and I just can't stop thinking about him. How do I know if it's really love?

2006-12-27 09:13:12 · 35 answers · asked by trackbrunswick 2 in Singles & Dating

Did you feel guilty?

2006-12-27 09:13:11 · 73 answers · asked by forget me not 1 in Singles & Dating

What was the mood?? Was it perfect?? Were you nervous??
Tell all!!

2006-12-27 09:12:48 · 6 answers · asked by Nicoletta 3 in Singles & Dating

ok
i really like my cousin like because we had a ground setting of being cousins. i feel like i can be my self around him because he is my cousin. but i am not sure if it is more than that. my other cousin who is a total taddle tail let it slip that that my cousin likes me.but he was not any further in detail. and i think his mom and brother know about him liking me cause his brother is always saying how there are lots of nice pretty girls but he has never had a girl friend. and his mother well she is very concealed about it. its hard to explain. is it wierd to like your cousin if they are totally different from you. and then my same cousin said he was talking to the cousin i like and he said that when he asked him that when he got married if he would make me a brides maid .he said that he said like "stongly hinted" that he wanted me as the actual bride. but he once again would not go into further detail.help me what is your opinion on the whole thing.

2006-12-27 09:12:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

theres this boy that i love so much but him already has a girl.it sux cuz he said he loves me too.

2006-12-27 09:11:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating