This guy called me three days in a row and we went on dates, romantic, fooled around but didnt sleep together. And the not sleeping together was his choice too! He also however seems like a pretty independent type. He's totally sweet when hes with me, but not sissy, he's very masculine. He seems really honest and will talk about pretty much anything, past girlfriends, family, goals, everything. The thing is, how can I tell if he's interested in a more exclusive relationship? He's like void of emotion or something and its hard to tell how much he actually likes me. Usually when a guy likes me he calls me all the time and wants to hang out like everyday, and while I admit thats smothering, at least I can tell that they like me. This guy works me into his schedule and while I certainly dont mind independence, I'm just trying to get a feel for the motives. A guy wouldnt go on multiple dates with you if he didnt see a potential for something more, right?
2006-12-27 09:16:25 · 8 answers · asked by Stephanie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I doubt he would continue to see you if there was no potential. Girl you should enjoy this man. How much emotion can someone have after 3 dates? He apparently has respect for you if he isn't trying to sleep with you.
2006-12-27 09:22:04 · answer #1 · answered by ~Crystal~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just a friend. You are just a friend to him and nothing more. He obviously has a busy schedule and like you say is very independent. He probably likes the way he lives right now and doesn't want to change it or alter it. More than likely he is not going to show emotion even if he feels it for a while because he is not ready to love anyone. Let him do his thing and if you like him then give him his space and don't try to push him into anything or make him into something he doesn't want. I have a feeling that if you tried he would bid you a fond farewell. I have friends like him and I have a son like him. In fact my son has two girlfriends and they both know it. But my son is not interested in calling them that. To him they are just friends because there are things he wants to do before he commits to anyone for anything. Understand?
2006-12-27 09:24:07 · answer #2 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its clear over here he's trying to get a feel for you (how far you'll go to invest in him) but you're ENABLING him in more ways than one; the first one, your body, two you probably have a cute apt and a good decent paying job to maintain it and who wants to pay for a motel room if you have the place for him to hang out?? Tip: you'll know you're all he wants to be exclusive with when he wants to see/hear from you EVERYDAY. But I'd give him a good month for your sake to find what he's really about (if there are any others) usually, a good sign he's playing you if there's alot of days in between before he calls, wants to see you to do something.
2006-12-27 09:31:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He acts exactly how I act toward MY girlfriend. That means he absolutely positively loves you... or pretty darn close. If he didn't sleep with you, that's a great thing. It means he loves and respects you too much to do something so vain as premarital sex with you and put you through that kind of complication. It's a good thing.
2006-12-27 09:20:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys never display any emotion. Acting aloof is just their style. This guy might be doing the most he can to show you he cares. It is not what you are used to, it might not be what you want to settle for. You can wait and see if he warms up to you more, but be prepared, this might be as demonstrative as he can be.
Good Luck!
C-F
2006-12-27 09:24:06 · answer #5 · answered by Crispy_Frog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you basically more beneficial not do some thing to his kin cus he will killl YOU. if i have been you, i does not date him. He desires medical help, it kind of feels he's been traumatized from this difficulty. I recommend, i imagine i'd be traumatized if i stumbled on out they raped and killed my sister :/ or maybe killing human beings, you may change into Loco. iHope you locate the answer :)!
2016-12-01 05:51:52 · answer #6 · answered by jaffar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy might very well be into you but at this point in his life he is more concerned with his future. Dating is a treat, but it isn't the first thing on his mind.
2006-12-27 09:22:07 · answer #7 · answered by lucky 13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i think he has something for you but he's just cautious on how to get started.
2006-12-27 09:21:02 · answer #8 · answered by deepthinker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋