Family & Relationships - 27 December 2006

i think this chic im friends with is kind of weird, she sends me the most mixed messages, we talk in person and have a cute chemistry, then we talk on instant messaging and its good and funny and cutesy , but today for some reason she is in a really weird mood, and is hardly talking to me the way she usually does and blocked me without telling me, i checked by going on another screename to see if she really did block me, and she did, whats this chics problem? mixed messages or what>?

2006-12-27 14:50:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my wife say that i do not spend time at home and i say that i do. I think that when I am at home we may taik about the kids but that is it. I think that I am not meeting her need. I love her very much. So if you can help me fix this thank you. P.S. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-27 14:50:35 · 1 answers · asked by Fourbears B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 4 years and still really in love but he has lost his sex drive. it has gone from 3 times a week to 3 times a month if i am lucky. he is a mechanic and says he is really tired but could there be something wrong with him? (i know he is not having an affair so i know that is not the issue). please help so maybe i can help him so things will get better.

2006-12-27 14:50:10 · 5 answers · asked by mak 1 in Singles & Dating

do guys like it when girls tell them they like them????????

2006-12-27 14:49:25 · 8 answers · asked by celinuchis90 3 in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy and I already tried telling him that i liked him and he seemed to like that but then he didn't he suddenly just stopped liking the attention. Do guys like it if you just tell them straight forward that you like them or if you play hard to get and flirt a little?

2006-12-27 14:49:06 · 22 answers · asked by Hailee 1 in Singles & Dating

I dont know what to do. I know that I dont love my exboyfriend he was my first love. The first guy who I fell very very hard for but its like every time I see him I start to cry. Every time one of my firiends mentions him I still remember the way he would hold on to me and never would let go. he was always there for me when I needed someone. I have a new guy in my life who I love with all my heart who I would do anything for but I still think about my exboyfriend. What do you guys think? Thanks in advance for your help.

2006-12-27 14:48:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 14:48:32 · 11 answers · asked by BUTTERFLY 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 14:48:09 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I love my wife and we have ups and downs. We are deaf married couples and I have heard so many stories of deaf marriages ending up in divorces. What's the secret to long lasting marriage?

2006-12-27 14:48:01 · 15 answers · asked by Roger S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

want are you doing tonight..

2006-12-27 14:46:31 · 16 answers · asked by Vanessa 1 in Family

My bestfreind's girlfreind is annoying me. I think she likes me and I tell her to quit calling and trying to flirt with me. She saying some weird stuff to me. I try to tell my freind but he says she's loyal and what not. I can't get rid of her! She said she'd leave him for me but he loves her alot and we've been best freinds all our lives, I couldn't do that to him. How can I get rid of her? Or atleast put a stop to this!

2006-12-27 14:46:18 · 15 answers · asked by thad p 2 in Singles & Dating

plzz help me!!!!oh and answer my other question titled plzz help me!!!thx bai bai

2006-12-27 14:45:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

It was a home burned CD with just one song "My Wish".
See lyrics at http://www.cowboylyrics.com/lyrics/rascal-flatts/my-wish-16928.html

Been friends for a couple of years nothing has ever happened between us.

Am I reading to much into this?

2006-12-27 14:44:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-27 14:44:34 · 26 answers · asked by IncDivaInk 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

The love one and am IN love with another. The one I love loves me, trust me, is stable and would make the most sense. The other I am IN LOVE with, he makes me feel alive, but we've tried now for two years and can't seem to get it right, but through it ALL I have never stopped loving him even though I have tried. But now I have to decide, do I stay with the one I love or move on AGAIn to the one i'm IN LOVE with, the one I want to marry. My heart hurts.

2006-12-27 14:43:43 · 6 answers · asked by dazed 1 in Singles & Dating

What should i do?

2006-12-27 14:43:23 · 5 answers · asked by Jess 2 in Singles & Dating

Thursday, My mother's best friend of 27 years and her 15 year old daughter are coming to stay with us. The daughter's gorgeous, and I think she likes me. Why? Because she wasn't going to come unless I was there.
Well, I'm out of town, with my father on visitation, and might not get back until saturday, which is quite gay, considering they're probobly leaving monday, which, all in all, limits my time with her.
And the house is like this, we just moved there.
3 Bed rooms, one is used for storage, master bed room, and my room.
If people come to stay, I stay in the living room.
So, I'm thinking The best friend will stay in my room, and the girl and I will be in the living room.
And I wanna get as far as I can, without making her uncomfortable, and I would like to begin a relationship, we're only about 5 hours away, and I'm in her town every weekend.
What do you suggest?

2006-12-27 14:42:22 · 8 answers · asked by thedisparage 1 in Singles & Dating

My b/f has plans to go to a New Year's Eve party with his friends without me. This is a party he has gone to every year for years.

So I made plans with my girls to go out and celebrate together.

Now he is pissed off and thinks I am going out to get laid.

What is wrong with him?

2006-12-27 14:42:02 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well my significant other is away from home... and what can i say... things are getting a little spicy on the phone and online. What are some ideas of spicy things to say, to keep the spark going even tho he is away? Not trying to be crude, just love my man and want to keep him satisfied :)

2006-12-27 14:41:46 · 10 answers · asked by Bo B 2 in Singles & Dating

a father as done abuse to a child and now a psychiatrist as come into the picture well when i took my child to the session for this lady to evaluate the two together she let the father bring my child a toy at first do you think that she should have done that, because i dont, there should have been no toys brought in by the father who as done abuse on the child, that just made it worse, the child was of course happy to see the father because he had brought a toy, and i just want to know do you think it was right for this psychiatrist to have allowed for the father to have brought a toy into the evaluation of the two together.

2006-12-27 14:41:24 · 5 answers · asked by Tina 1 in Family

Just about 1/3 of the people I've stumbled across are actually married folks. How do they manage to go looking for girls or "friends" while they still have a spouse? You'd think that it would cause a big rift at home where they still have to deal with domestic issues. And it doesn't take too long for a wife to get a suspicion that something's going on on the computer.

2006-12-27 14:41:20 · 6 answers · asked by Tet 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I dont know if any of you watch the first 48 on A&E. But its this detective on the show that I have a major crush on. I've been contemplating on getting in touch with him. By calling the police station and leaving him a message or writing him a letter. But of course I'm nervous. For one he may think I'm crazy for going out of my way to let him know I have a crush on him and two he may thank I'm a stalker. What should I do? mature answer please

2006-12-27 14:41:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i know this is weird, but i want some comments on my name. i have a super long name that i don't think is all so great. i just want people to be honest and tell me what they think of it. i have asked my friends, but they are all so nice and say that it is fine. i don't really like it, so people just call me by my nickname.....
my name is mellanielieagh, mella for short. just want to know what u people out there actually think about this name (it's pronounced mel-lane-i-elle-i-ah. thanks so much (i don't mind rude comments much but try to tell me in a not so hurtful way please because i have to live with it for the rest of my life, or at least until i can change it by myself - when my mom lets me that is...)

2006-12-27 14:39:55 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

when turned 16 last year i was old enough to date, so far i've had only one boyfriend, but i broke up with him after two weeks because he was boring. Ever since then i've had trouble with finding a guy that i like who likes me back. It's always either they like me but i don't like them or i like them and they just want to be friends with me. Is there some aura that i'm sending out and i don't even realize? I'm now 17 and still boyfriendless and all my friends seem to be getting boyfriends. Is there something i'm doing wrong? I need some advice.

2006-12-27 14:39:26 · 15 answers · asked by Nigerian Babe Gurl 2 in Singles & Dating

I am divorced and was chatting online with a friend of my ex (divorced for over a year). She didn't know it was me at first. She even told me that I was the type she was looking for, UNTIL she found out who I was (I told her). She said she could never violate her friendship with my ex even though they rarely even talk anymore, less than once a year. Why can't you date an ex of a friend?

2006-12-27 14:39:12 · 8 answers · asked by from Alabama 1 in Singles & Dating

After he cheated on me a year and a half ago. I've caught him looking at naked women online(that's what strated our argument). Now I've been no angel because the first couple of years I used to be physically abusive to him when we'd argue but I don't do that anymore (He was always a gentleman and never hit me back). We've been married for 9 yrs. have 5 kids .

I love this man so much and he says he loves me just the same and wants our marriage to work. He's never begged me to take him back he just gave me my space and wrote me a letter saying he wants my forgiveness and that he understands if I won't have him. Shouldn't he have begged? I think I took him back to quickly. I let him back in my life in about 4 days when I found put about the affair (they slept together once but communicated for 1 month). He told me they used a condom and he never kissed her in the mouth or had oral sex.

Now we're back lovey dovey but I'm sick of the break up to makeup. Should I just call it quits?

2006-12-27 14:39:08 · 24 answers · asked by Lovely1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How long should I wait???
I've been with my boyfriend for five years. We are both young professionals (early thrities). At first, I didnt' want a family. I have changed my mind. He hasn't. I don't want to leave him. However... I want to get married and start a family. He doesn't. I can't picture myself with anyone else, and I certainly don't want to see him with anyone else, either. I feel like I am wasting years. I trust him completely. We have a great relationship, but I want more. I've been feeling this way for the last year or so... If he doesn't budge, when should I give up and move on?

2006-12-27 14:37:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i caonstantly made fun of the fact that he couldn't ask his neighbor out and i was jealous because he was really hot and i liked him but know he is mad and won't even talk to me because i went around telling everyone he is 27 and his neighbor is 23 and she is pretty and hot but i feel bad know should i go and apologize to him or just let it go because he isnt talking to me or answering the phone or emailing me i feel sad what should i do i was just so jealous please help and now he is dating her! But please help me i feel horrible i still wanna be his friend

2006-12-27 14:36:11 · 10 answers · asked by Valerie 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 14:35:49 · 1 answers · asked by anjanet 1 in Weddings

He is always upset because he still can't get a girlfriend because he is obese. He is sweet, smart, educated, and he loves women! He always asks me for advice, but I don't know what to tell him because to be honest with you, I wouldn't date him either, I just have a personal preference for guys like me: who are somewhat in shape. Any tips for him??

2006-12-27 14:35:26 · 23 answers · asked by HustleGirl 3 in Singles & Dating