My b/f has plans to go to a New Year's Eve party with his friends without me. This is a party he has gone to every year for years.
So I made plans with my girls to go out and celebrate together.
Now he is pissed off and thinks I am going out to get laid.
What is wrong with him?
2006-12-27 14:42:02 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like a guilty conscience to me
2006-12-27 14:44:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was *so* there a few years ago. He thinks that because this is a tradition that you're just going out to get back at him. Just do what I did and try to explain to him that you don't really want to sit at home by yourself all night and since he didn't invite you to go along, you thought it might be nice to hang out with some of your girl friends that didn't have anything to do that night either. Let him know that he is number one but since he's not going to be around, you shouldn't have to be by yourself. Then suggest that the two of you have a special new years date either the day before or the day after to make him feel special.
Trust me, it works wonders....good luck!
2006-12-27 22:45:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need a different relationship1 NOW!!!
Without trust, there is nothing!
New Years with his friends? Not You?
Do not say a word, do not get angry or mad! JOIN the Air Force,
let him come to the place and find nothing of yours there!
Tell no one, just do it. Benefits:
Comfortable place to live, with Hot showers, all meals, professional training, 30 paid vacation days a year, full medical and dental, pay raise every year, promotions, travel, meet people from all over the US.
DO IT!
2006-12-27 22:50:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is feeling guilty about something. Are you suppose to sit home on New Year's Eve while he goes to a party? Bad idea to get started in life this way.
2006-12-27 22:47:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im a guy and i have always had respect for my girlfriends and now that i have married, my wife. All I can say that your so called boyfriend has more than guys at this so called party or he likes the boys more than you! tell the sob to take a hike! He aint worth a **** now and it will get worse as time goes along. Hope ya listened!
2006-12-27 22:54:53 · answer #5 · answered by P/T Doctor 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's a man's world and double standards have always existed. I think it is chivalrous of him actually, wanting to protect you. It is a party he has gone to for years so it is not like he is up to something behind your back. I would let him go and if he wants you to stay home, I would stay home and let him know that you think it is adorable that he worries about you (this will help build up his masculine ego and make him like you even more). Have some girlfriends over to your place instead of going out. If you have a wonderful relationship with this guy, I would try to keep it wonderful and not start creating unnecessary problems. Would you rather fight and go out for the night and possibly loose this guy OR have this man as your man for 2007? Why make a mountain out of a molehill/ It is just one evening.
2006-12-27 22:51:43 · answer #6 · answered by Orion777 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Just because your boyfriend acts that way doesn't mean all other men do. That's a silly generalization.
It seems to me like he's the "jealous type." My only suggestions are to either talk to him about your problem or discontinue your relationship.
2006-12-27 22:44:56 · answer #7 · answered by Jeremy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello, he has a penis. That's what's wrong with him. If he just had a little hole where the semen leaked out, like in frogs, he'd feel differently. The ability to rape gives men power.
2006-12-27 22:45:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think hes freekin out becuase maybe at his party something is going to happen u just dont knwo about and insted of hanging with you hes going to the party and maybe hes gonna end up doing something stupid look into this and make sure nothing is going to happen..
2006-12-27 22:44:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guilty conscience?Maybe he's the one getting laid at that party.If he's so concerned why doesn't he take you with him.If not,go out with your friends and have a blast!!You might meet someone that likes to spend time with you.
2006-12-27 22:52:34 · answer #10 · answered by Ms Lety 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't trust you, which makes no sence because he, himself, is going to a party without you. i'm just curious, is he a truthful person, because i wonder what he's doing at his new years eve party, maybe that's why he thinks your new years eve party is similar to his. just a thought, but maybe i'm thinking too much, but i can't help but be curious.
2006-12-27 22:48:29 · answer #11 · answered by ^-^ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋