how do i talk to my wife to make her feel that i am meeting her needs?

Question

my wife say that i do not spend time at home and i say that i do. I think that when I am at home we may taik about the kids but that is it. I think that I am not meeting her need. I love her very much. So if you can help me fix this thank you. P.S. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

It's not really about you being at home it's about what you do with her when your at home.When your kids take a nap or got to bed for the night spend time with her.help her clean or stop her from cleaning and take to the closet and tell her how hot she is(not just her looks but how she takes care of everyone.Plant a big kiss on her and tell her you have plans for her later. Through out the day pat her on the butt. Start a bath for her.Then go in and offer to wash her. You can do the same thing with the shower. What she really is asking for is pockets of time with you so see doesn't always feel like a mom. She wants you to be involved but also see her. When the kids are around tell them out loud so she can hear "See that woman right there that's my wife ,I love her. Yes shes your mommy but shes my wife."It always works. She going to say stop it or act shy but those are the things she will remember when your gone.