Family & Relationships - 27 December 2006

I've been friends with this girl since high school. She moved far away after high school. We always liked each other but, we never dated.
She moved back down with her bf, whom she met "far away". They dated for 5 years. She always talked to me about her problems with her bf. I got really close to her because I felt like we were good friends. She finally broke up with him after some advice I gave her (it was good advice....not beneficial for me)

Well, she has this Something About Mary Complex. All guys fall in love with her because of her personality. There is this other guy who loves her and guess what, they dated in high school. Most of her friends are guys.

She wants to go on a road trip because I mentioned I never been up north before and thats where she is from. The thing is she doesn't really talk to me that much on the phone or anything. I talked to her today and we are definitely going. What should I do?

She is very sarcastic...she hides behind things.

2006-12-27 14:16:35 · 15 answers · asked by Redsox man777 1 in Singles & Dating

his name is harold escarffullett its been almost 20 yrs since i seen him last i would like him to know that he has a grandson and a son-law

2006-12-27 14:15:09 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

by someone answering your questions? Even emailing you constantly? Or do you just shrug, and say, get over it?

2006-12-27 14:14:22 · 16 answers · asked by Yanswers, Satan in disguise! 1 in Singles & Dating

i know, i know.....but i was aways for xmas, and didnt get a prez from them.

They dont want to give me cash...they just want to make it special. im 16y/o btw

2006-12-27 14:14:15 · 12 answers · asked by incaseuwonder 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am totally into this guy and i wanna go on a vacation with him....for 5 days, but i dont know what should i tell my parents, they think of me as of a typical virgin cathlic girl who never been with a guy before....yeah, and i am 21 and this is my first serious bf and i feel like i really wanna go.....so how can i tell it to my parents in a nice way, i dont wanna break their hearts too, especially my fathers......help??

2006-12-27 14:12:33 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I really like him and need to know what to say or do asap. thanx

2006-12-27 14:12:01 · 4 answers · asked by keepsake16 1 in Friends

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2006-12-27 14:11:53 · 10 answers · asked by IS a FAGGIT 2 in Friends

in school i feel totally invisible. which really stincks cus i have this really perky bubbayly personality and i am fun. ( not to sound consided) but everyday i try soo hard to look cute and its not like i am ugly. i have brown hair big brown eyes and i am 4"11. And no one notices me. How can i get some guys to notice me more? and how can i get the confidence enough so that i can be as confident and as fun as i am outside of my school, inside of school?

2006-12-27 14:11:18 · 38 answers · asked by peace love & lipgloss 2 in Singles & Dating

I think it is a Good Movie,whats your opnion?

2006-12-27 14:10:28 · 1 answers · asked by Dew 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

My 16 yr old has always been difficult..I have had him in counseling since he was 10 and he spent almost 2 yrs in a Military type shelter for difficult children. I visited him every weekend while he was in the shelter 2 1/2 hr drive one way. He has terrible grades and is often suspended. The principal will not let him in the regular school because he is disruptive in class. He is currently in alternative school 4 hrs a day. They would kick him out but they labeled him Special Ed. He smokes etc and has no allowance or work because he won't do anything to earn $
He will be moving in with his brother who is FT military.
I have tried everything and nothing seems to work. He opens the windows in the middle of winter, Leaves doors unlocked etc. Any simple task he refuses to even try to do right.
I take him to hockey games, movies, races, rodeos, concerts etc. I am really hurt he doesn't want to behave. I don't want to give this burden to my other son but don't know what to.

2006-12-27 14:09:54 · 15 answers · asked by Sunshine 3 in Family

My ex bf was the one who dumped me, so I was really shocked when he told me that he wants to see me and "meet up". He called me, and planned the whole thing (a movie). I assumed there would be coffee afterwards since after one year I thought he wanted to really talk & catch up. He picked up, but he never opened any doors for me, he walked ahead of me, & after the movie he just drove me home. He never walked me to my door & just said "merry Christmas". He never tried to even hug me so I just shook his hand & said bye. I felt like trash after the date, he treated me bad, like s**t. He would open doors & walk me to my door when we were going out, but I thought he would be a gentlemen again cuz of all the effort he put in to set up this date, by calling & picking me up. I thought after the movie, we would have coffee and that he would say either 1) I want u back, or 2) I wanna be friends. I thought #2 is what he would say. Neither of this happened. WHY did he do that & treat me like that?

2006-12-27 14:09:52 · 16 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 14:09:17 · 7 answers · asked by iweighfatmen 1 in Singles & Dating

At my bank that i go to there is this bankteller that i truly like a lot. I know that the banktellers are suppose to smile and be friendly towards the customers. What is the best way for me to fnd out if she is single or is dating someone. I go to the bank once a week to deposit money and she is there whenever i see her. What should i do or say next? How can I get her to like me and to be able to go out with me?
Thanks again

2006-12-27 14:08:31 · 5 answers · asked by spurs257 1 in Singles & Dating

After dating my ex for 8 months he told me we needed a break he said i didn't give him any space. i got upset and tried to make him jealous by dancing with my ex at a party he then broke up with me. We kept in contact for 2 months and kept on having sex. During this time we would have long night conversations and he continued to lead me on knowing how i felt about him. He told me that he talks with other girls on the phone but i kept on holding on hoping that there was a chance for us. Out of frustration i called his telephone company and pretended to be him and told them that i forgot my voicemail password, got his password and checked his voicemail. The day before he found out i checked his voicemail he met up with me and told me we can no longer be friends. He then changed his phone number and hasn't contacted me since it's been 20 days since. I cry often and am lost. What should i do and whats your opinion about the situation. I still love him, should i still hold on?

2006-12-27 14:08:23 · 5 answers · asked by broken heart 2 in Singles & Dating

If you have never had sex before and your at a party how do you know when the girl your with wants to have sex? All my friends at party have sex with what ever girl they get with but I dont know how they do it or anything. Will girls give up anything when there drunk most of the time? Do you help them take there cloths off what are some of the things you do? And please dont give me the to young speech I am 17 and just want to live life and have fun.

2006-12-27 14:07:22 · 8 answers · asked by theoneandonly4251 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 14:06:49 · 13 answers · asked by Queen of Scream Fan 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 14:06:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Man - 39 Woman - 28.... what could be some pros and/or cons of this age difference if any at all?

2006-12-27 14:05:37 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There's really really sweet guy that i know and he's one of the nicest guys you'll ever meet. The guys my age act so immature and childish and he's so much fun to be around! Do you think it matters that i'm two years older than him?

2006-12-27 14:04:22 · 29 answers · asked by Nigerian Babe Gurl 2 in Singles & Dating

Why cany ppl just let Jews be? why do they have to make some mean comment off the street or something? Why can't they respect people for their religion and back off?!?!?!?

2006-12-27 14:03:50 · 13 answers · asked by Yasmine A 1 in Singles & Dating

i have friends we usually go out,btw we're 9 in the group, 4 of them were always borrowing money from me saying that they don't have money or the money that was sent by their parents were delayed and it takes a long time before they can return it to me they told me that they will return it before our xmas vacation but until now they didn't pay it yet, it'll be alright if they'll just tell me that they will pay it after our xmas vacation but the mere fact that they made their promises made me disappointed... am confused...are they my real friends?or not?

2006-12-27 14:03:44 · 13 answers · asked by hermione 1 in Friends

6 wks., before i graduated college, which i just did, i met this girl. we had an instant connection, like nothing i ever felt. i really started to feel like my feelings for her were other-worldly. she started to like me too but a guy, who was a close friend to her, asked her out. it makes sense for her to be with him over me- they know each other better, belong in each other's social worlds, and he can physically be with her (i live 500 miles away) so i told her that she should be with him and i'd just be her friend and not say anything. but she couldn't handle it bc she liked me, and said that she had to hold back around me. i started to date my ex again. so basically we both like each other in an innate way but know that we can't be together. still, i can't get over her and constantly worry i am hurting her. how do i figure out what to do?

2006-12-27 14:03:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just got engaged and i am clueless about this

2006-12-27 14:00:56 · 15 answers · asked by candykiss382 1 in Singles & Dating

What are the signs that someone shoe that they are attracted to you?

2006-12-27 14:00:39 · 4 answers · asked by Brooke 1 in Singles & Dating

I do, an I probley already know u if u do live here please email me at dachi_lover_forever@yahoo.com. and if we dont know each other maybe we could.

2006-12-27 13:59:33 · 4 answers · asked by Kassi 2 in Friends

My father is a multiple-regressive alcoholic who needs hospitalization or detox any time he is off the wagon. He has been sober, supposedly for a few months. I an a 34-year old with a wife and 3 little kids. He and his wife are not understanding why I am so skittish to re-enter his life, after over a decade of pain and heartbreak. We are on speaking terms, but I know he wants more, and wants to see the kids more. I am trying to insulate them from the heartbreak I have felt off and on for the last 15 years.

So I guess the question is, is it fair for me to keep him at arm's reach and to insulate my kids from having any real bond with he or his wife (also an alcoholic, BTW). My protectiveness says stay away, danger, danger. My love for him says, he'll be gone some day and then it will be too late.

I have honestly been so hurt by him, I am most comfortable just avoiding him, but I feel like I have to decide. Advice from adults appreciated.

2006-12-27 13:59:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Buddy of mine got six (count em' thats 6) of us home at about 3 in the morning after a very late and very drunken party. He selflessly drove all these people, most of whom he wasnt planning on taking with him in a borrowed (& crowded) sedan. The rain was coming down hard, and much of the streets were flooded. Although I myself was fine, there were two people in the car who had drank too much, ate very little, and had little tolerance, so they were throwing up for much of the ride home. Some of their, ugh, "sickness", got on parts of car doors and further complicated the night, although we later managed to clean it up. What started out as a fun night out turned into an almost nightmarish drive home. I was thinking of getting him something to show much I appreciate his friendship, kindness, and safe driving. What in the world would make an suitable gift? All suggestions welcomed.

2006-12-27 13:59:01 · 22 answers · asked by eugmir 2 in Friends

me and this guy have been seeing each other for 6 months now there has been alot of drama but we got through that but he's still acting wierd i feel like he's getting more distant from me....how do I talk to him about this becuz it's frustrating he tells me i'm special to him and he will not let any rumors or other drama get between us and i'm the main girl in his life noone else but when i want to see him all of a sudden he's busy and his phone is cut off i know he needs his phone because he's in the military and he's a drill instructor to where they can call him into work anytime they need him. since he has this job time with him is very short we work on the same base so sometimes when he's working i'll see him and we talk. I asked him plenty of times if i was bothering him he says no i'm not a problem to him i called his friends, his roomate they can't get a hold him. what should I do? no rude comments please

2006-12-27 13:58:46 · 3 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Singles & Dating

No guy can possibly know the answer to this.

2006-12-27 13:58:21 · 17 answers · asked by yacht_tim 2 in Singles & Dating

What do men think of women who want to wait till they're married to lose their 'flower'? Be honest!!!!

2006-12-27 13:58:14 · 3 answers · asked by CMB 1 in Marriage & Divorce