2006-12-27 14:06:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's totally OK. You have friends that are guys right? As long as there are limits present (ie. no f***k buddies, or extreme situations). And as long as he is trust worthy and you know who his friends are it should be fine. I would only worry about friends that he refuses to introduce you to or new mysterious friends.
2006-12-27 14:11:18 · answer #1 · answered by You Don't Know Me! 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Kind of a retorhical question, if you asking us then you obviosly are worried. It all comes down to if you trust him. For instance i could care less if my G/F has other guy friends, especially if they are my friends as well. I trust my G/F and i know she trusts me. She knows i may talk with other women or flirt but she knows im hers and i would not do anything like that. If i wanted another women i would leave her. The only time i would get worried is if they are disappearing on you, constantly having to go somewhere alone or hanging out with a peticular friend. Catching a cheater is not very hard. SO like i said, it comes down to how well you trust him and who his friends are.
2006-12-27 14:13:21 · answer #2 · answered by Tyler_Durden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, i don't understand what are you worry for? Lack of confidence? Scared your b/f will break up with you and go for another girl? Please, be confidence to yourself. I believe your b/f is quite okay, else he won't have girl friend"s"..(many). This implied that you have made the good decision to have him as your b/f. Cheer!!!
On the contrary, if your b/f just a dude!!..Having many g/f at the same time, playing around the girls..Then, you should "dump" him.
Last but not least,before marry, everyone also have the right to choose their love one who will accompany them until the end of the world.So, you also have the freedom to have many boy friends as long as you don't do anything that may hurt your relationship with your b/f.
2006-12-27 14:38:47 · answer #3 · answered by Melon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so you cant expect your b/f to only have guy friends unless he is hooking up with those girls you should have nothing to worry about.
it is actually good if your b/f has girl friends because than he is very social
dont worry
2006-12-27 14:10:04 · answer #4 · answered by iloveDEREKJETER! 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? There is nothing to worry about. It's natural and it actually could mean he has a better understanding of the opposite sex to appreciate them as friends.
2006-12-27 14:08:38 · answer #5 · answered by Bonita Applebaum 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think that's great that your bf has friends outside the relationship, regardless of gender. nothing to worry about, unless he starts to show obvious feelings for one of his girl friends (talking about her all the time, showering her with affection, and making excuses to hang out with her are some things to look for).
2006-12-27 14:31:42 · answer #6 · answered by Rebekah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's OK if his girl friends are only friends.
Only worry when he is:
Disrespecting you in front of his girl friends.
Spend more time with them, then you.
Going out on to many dates with them.
2006-12-27 14:19:20 · answer #7 · answered by GOD IS LOVE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is open and honest about his friends that are girls and is not trying to hide things from you I wouldnt be concerned.
But if he starts trying to hide things from you or acts different about introducing his friends to you then I wouldnt put up with it. Happy Holidays!
2006-12-27 14:12:01 · answer #8 · answered by hopefloats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who's worth anything has friends of both sexes.
2006-12-27 14:09:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U dont want to be the other woman do u? if u dont then u should worry about it and set grounds for urself.
2006-12-27 14:09:15 · answer #10 · answered by Stel 1 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋