I dont know what to do. I know that I dont love my exboyfriend he was my first love. The first guy who I fell very very hard for but its like every time I see him I start to cry. Every time one of my firiends mentions him I still remember the way he would hold on to me and never would let go. he was always there for me when I needed someone. I have a new guy in my life who I love with all my heart who I would do anything for but I still think about my exboyfriend. What do you guys think? Thanks in advance for your help.
2006-12-27 14:48:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I cant be his friend. I have tried that trust me. We treidn everytihng. We did friend with beneifts, real freinds, we called it quits on everything. I have a new guy also.
2006-12-27 14:53:44 · update #1
You are normal. I hear this all the time. This is one of those things that only time can heal, unfortunatley. Keep focusing on the future as best you can and do not look back- even for fond memories. At least not for a while. There is hope, it will not last forever, its just one of those "growing pains" most of us have to deal with in life. Good luck! :)
2006-12-27 14:55:48 · answer #1 · answered by littledreamergirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The pain of losing your first love is truly heartbreaking.... for everybody. You are not alone in that.
First loves will give you your first real heartbreak. You never forget your first heartbreak. It will forever be burned into your mind and heart.... and certain triggers will make you feel the pain again like it was just yesterday. There is beauty in it though... because it was the first time you ever loved someone. I think the pain is beautiful.
2015-01-19 23:14:09 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, sometimes our mind plays games with us.... remembering only the good times is one of those games. Leave the past behind- there are some things that are best left as a memory. Don't let it spoil what you have now. It's not like he's courting you again.
2006-12-27 14:52:44 · answer #3 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you did'nt give yourself enough time to get your emotions out before moving on. That's ok. In time if you're really happy with this other guy, you'll be fine in time. It's just unresolved emotional attachments; they'll eventually unattach.
2006-12-27 14:57:18 · answer #4 · answered by Sammy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are still in love with him. Trust me, you never forget your first love and sometimes it can take years to get over it. I love my husband, but still think of my first love from time to time.
2006-12-27 14:52:43 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't love two guys simultaneously. Have a deep retrospection and decide once and for all, whom you really love and then select him and go on from there.
2006-12-27 14:52:25 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What ur experiencing is completely normal.....everyone remembers their first love and thinks about him or her now and then. These feelings will subside as you grow older.
2006-12-27 14:53:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think your supposed to forget about him, just embrace the good thoughts and learn from the experience. oh yea, don't forget to have fun.
2006-12-27 14:53:25 · answer #8 · answered by and,or,nand,nor 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have not forgot my fist love too, and we let each other 5 years ago. i still think of her, and she may think of her. it is just natural,
2006-12-27 14:54:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal to feel this way.. u want him back... u guys should go back out if u guys love eachother that much...
2006-12-27 14:51:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋