when turned 16 last year i was old enough to date, so far i've had only one boyfriend, but i broke up with him after two weeks because he was boring. Ever since then i've had trouble with finding a guy that i like who likes me back. It's always either they like me but i don't like them or i like them and they just want to be friends with me. Is there some aura that i'm sending out and i don't even realize? I'm now 17 and still boyfriendless and all my friends seem to be getting boyfriends. Is there something i'm doing wrong? I need some advice.
2006-12-27 14:39:26 · 15 answers · asked by Nigerian Babe Gurl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe something is telling you to concentrate on your education... Boys will only get you in trouble... so hang out with alot of friends and allow yourself to be a teenager... as you well know that anyone who is dating seriously as a teenager never stays with their first love and if by chance that they do get married and settle down... they are usually divorced by the time they are 30... So think about your education and what kind of life you want to live after you get out of school.. then strive for it... your mate in life is out there be patient and let him find you... after you are set in life to have a good life...
2006-12-27 14:46:39 · answer #1 · answered by Autumns Destany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are trying too hard and you are worrying too much. A boyfriend is not a thing or a posession that you must have at 17. In fact the longer you are without one and the more you observe of your friends and their boyfriends the smarter you will be when your turn comes and you will know what is ok and what is not and all the ins and outs of that kind of relationship. Guys, really nice ones that are long lasting, want girls that haven't been around dating every guy around. They want to know that they are special and so are you. So, don't rush things that aren't supposed to be rushed. The right guy is right around the corner and if you are with another guy just because you need to be, you'll miss him right? This is the best advice I can give,patience and being good and wise and looking for just the right one, not quantity but quality counts in these things. Good luck sweetie.
2006-12-27 14:50:43 · answer #2 · answered by MISS-MARY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As me and my friend sit here and read this, we know we can relate. We both are boyfriendless and havent had good bfs for a long time if ever. We also dont realize what we're doin wrong. I think we just need to go out into the world and show the guys that we're there. Talk to random guys and get to know people. Go to clubs, parties, dances and other activities that involve boys. Maybe there's some luck out there for us.
2006-12-27 14:45:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 21:58:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be crazy when it seems like you can't find the perfect guy that fits you. But don't worry, if you really want to find that guy that's not going to be boring and will like you back, just be yourself and don't be fake. Don't be afraid, you're not doing anything wrong. Seriously don't rush to find some guy, because in the end it's just going to end in heartbreak. Just be yourself and try to concentrate on other things that's important to you such as school or work or family. The boy that you're looking for will come to you, don't go looking for him.
2006-12-27 14:46:45 · answer #5 · answered by yleemoreno 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are young. love comes to those who wait. dont worry about your friends and what they have,. you will have a boyfriend when the time is right do not rush it you cant hurry love. you are probably a very nice girl. it is best to not 'look' for love. love finds you and believe me it will find you. just wait.. I know it is hard and you might feel out of place when your friends are doing couple things but I assure you that love will find a way. just like the song says. oh you probably are too young for that song but you just hang in there and what ever you do DO NOT get a boyfriend because everyone else has one. you are not everyone else you are you and that makes you special,. I know that sounds corny but its true. you just wait you will be fine.
2006-12-27 14:47:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you still have time to find yourself a boyfriend. maybe you're falling for the wrong types of guys. for your age, consider going to your local YMCA, school dances, mall, arcade, etc. and talk to guys. just because your friends are dating doesn't mean you have to. give it time. when you find an interesting guy, take things slow and see if something happens. maybe you're making things go by too fast, and it's scaring guys away. you don't need a man, but if a good catch comes along, go for it. and keep a positive attitude.
2006-12-27 14:45:25 · answer #7 · answered by Rebekah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think theres anything wrong with you, I am 16 and I haven't had a boyfriend since I was 9 so really you don't have to worry try meeting new people and be yourself.
2006-12-27 14:48:05 · answer #8 · answered by celinuchis90 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, just keep being u. It seems like your putting off this aura only cause you've just broke up. If you were single it'd be the same. take it easy, it'll come
2006-12-27 14:43:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry so much about it. You're young, there is lots of time and when you are stressed out about it, it does send out negative feelings. Be happy with who you are and watch things improve!
2006-12-27 14:43:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋